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Tried gamblers hey how have you been approach with/without forced IOI's, relatively empty club (midweek, student night)... I failed miserably. I had this wierd point I reached with the target where they said "no you're thinking of someone else"... Tried carrying on with "No way! I've met your doppleganger!" with no avail (lack of interest from them turns back to friends)

Has anyone had any success with this method (UK 19-23 age group, or any in general). Would really appreciate any input on this. I'm relatively convinced gamblers method of pickup suits me the most with cold approaches. I want to improve but can't do so without some feedback or detail on how to use these methods in field.

what is it about gambler method that appeals to you?

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You have to make sure you're opening before you're opening. Make eye contact and get a smile from her, then a little wave. Then go and ask how have you been.

I've found that the "curious expression" opener doesn't work for me. I don't know if my expression doesn't seem genuine or what, but I tried probably 50 times and got a cold conversation.

However, forcing the IOI's does work tremendously for me. When she responds positively to the wave or point, I am free to open without any fear of rejection, so I do that in the way that I am best. Meaning I am free to open verbally and directly. When she sees you point at her, and she smiles or points back, and you start to approach her, she gets excited. You just had a fun interaction across the room, so she's expecting you to be a fun sociable person. Give her just that when you meet her verbally. Good energy levels, flirty, and most importantly, have fun! If you are having fun and you bring it to her, she'll have fun and become attracted to your vibe. Find or think of a funny opener, or do like I do and just introduce yourself, followed by a wacky thing to say.

Like "What's up? I'm Ruggedized." She says, "Hey, I'm (HB)" "Good to meet you. I like cheesecake."

Be creative. Usually she will either agree with you (at which point you high five her) or she will laugh. Then you start on a routine stack if you need one.

-Ruggedized

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Awesome feedback guys. This technique appeals to me as its deemed good for club game, which is what I'm trying to crack.

Honestly I'm struggling to force an IOI when any eye contact is so fleeting. How do you gesture to them fast enough? Are you just quick of the mark or doing it constantly. I can't help but picture myself standing in the middle of a club waving at everyone like a lunatic

Regards

R&B

Try being sexual to the "not so desired" girls who will hold your gaze just a little bit longer(blow them a kiss). Then they'll give attention to you from across the bar, and the HB 8's 9's and 10's will look at you for longer than a millisecond.


-Ruggedized

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-A bad wingman puts the ass in assistance; a good wingman helps build the fort in comfort.
-You can't say overreact without saying ovary.

Most of the time I had major trouble with getting women to make EC with me at night and ESPECIALLY during the day. Don't get sucked into using the forced IOI's as a crutch like I did. Retain your skills to cold approach and calibrate on the fly if need be.

Ive only seen the stealth attraction videos from gambler, and even though i use a lot of similar stuff, im skeptical of how well it works for everyone.

You have to be relatively good looking and social already in my opinion. Yes inner game will help but if youre telling me a fat ugly guy is going to look and force IOIs and blow kisses in a club and thatll get him half the way in with a girl, im not buying it.

The other methods are more indirect but in my opinion theyre better for certain guys.

Some just have to work harder and different. He looks reasonably well and so when he goes to talk to a girl, she sees a good looking confident man. Thats not going to work for others. Theyll have to build the attraction in another way.

Another thing, If you point at someone in a bar or club, they're going to see it, even periferally and their gaze will naturally be drawn back to you.

You're right though, you have to adjust your clothing style, your haircut, your facial hair to compliment your best features. Sometimes it's tough to decide how best to do this. If you have any female friends, have them help you with a new wardrobe, haircut, etc. Women love to help their friends with self improvement this way and I gaurantee if you ask a female friend for help in this department, they'll find a day to help you.


-Ruggedized

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-A bad wingman puts the ass in assistance; a good wingman helps build the fort in comfort.
-You can't say overreact without saying ovary.

lol, the stealth seduction crap blows as far opening goes. Basically all your really doing is being a pussy cause you don't wanna get blown out. Just man up and go in.