I was just at my University's library with my tutor for my advanced Calculus course when this HB walks up and in a shy way asks if anyone is using a seat and if she can share the table. If I wasn't caught off guard and in the middle of being tutored I would have been sarcastic and said "No go away jokingly" or "Yes for $5" or something but instead I was my normal AFC self and said "sure no problem"

About 5 to 10 minutes pass and my tutor leaves and I didn't plan on engaging her since I was feeling shy myself and not in a mood to game so as I was leaving I said "table is all yours" and she asks me to help her connect to a printer.Since I'm Computer Science and do IT stuff on the side I said sure I'd take a look. We make small talk (what year and major ect.) and I make sure to smile and make eye contact and laugh about her computer problem.

She then gets up and leaves saying I can play with her computer. 5 minutes later she comes back and starts getting ready to leave saying it's no big deal ect. So I ask her I don't even know her name and she asked for my name and then she said well nice meeting you and walks away. I accidentally saw her e-mail address and remembered it (it was simple one) so if I wanted to contact her I could but it would be really creepy. Should I even bother?

What do you do in these sudden spur of the moment situations? I thought about giving her my e-mail saying contact me if she has further issues but didn't. I didn't bother to ask for her number since we only talked for like 3 minutes and she didn't seem interested ect + I didn't have much time to escalate or anything. I was caught off guard. Any tips on what I should of done for future instances?

I'm thinking of sending her an e-mail and being funny about it but how do I come across as not a stalker? I mean her email was right in front of me. I have nothing to loose. If I don't do anything I will never hear from her, if I send her an e-mail I probalby won't hear from her but at least there's a chance.

is not about what you do in certain situation. Is about getting your skills down with women internalizing them so your on point naturally without even realizing it. Yes, is hard work, and took me over 2 years to get to this point. But you have to practice, face rejection, etc... to get there.

And in your situation, I would have exchange contact and said, to hit you up if she has other problems.

Is it worth sending her an e-mail or is it too stalkerish in this situation? Logically I have nothing to loose if I send her just one message. I won't hear from her otherwise. Yeah it may appear stalkerish but some girls don't care. An e-mail is less direct than a number anyway.

How should I write the message? I was thinking of something like:

Subject: You owe me

"Hey, we met yesterday at the library. I know this is totally stalker like because I don't really know you. I've never done this before but I was dared by a friend. I understand if you don't respond. I just couldn't help but notice we were both wearing the same shirts yesterday + the fact that I was not able to solve your computer problem. What are the odds of that. That just never happens as I solve most of my problems (computer or not). I actually could have fixed it if you had more patience By the way, did you ever figure it out? Just thought I'd say hey. "

PS: I forgot to mention I charge by the minute so you owe me $10

^^^ no, no and no !!!

don't mention stalking, don't mention you were dared (meaning you were afraid to do this simple thing on your own) and most certainly don't even think she has the option of not responding. if you noticed you were wearing same shirt don't put it in a mail, sounds lame frankly. girls are supposed to make a big deal out of matching shirts and things like that, not guys.

the computer was the only genuine connection you had, use it.
go with something like 'I couldn't help but notice how together we managed to turn the computer into a smoking heap of e-rubble. clearly you have a knack for that kind of thing.
what do you say we meet at such and such place on so and so date over coffee and discuss what to do blow-up next ?'

hell man, you are a smart dude, why are you being so coy ? leave that for the girls.

and if you get the date (you should) don't forget to brush up your body language and kino skills before you go.

That sounds too forward and cheesy...(E-rubble?)..idk if it would work. Suggesting a meeting right away is probably going to fail. I still have to establish some sort of connection with her. I just need a good email opener.

you don't have to copy paste what I wrote, write your own version that matches your personality. e-rubble part is exaggeration obviously. it's meant to be absurd.

but suggesting a meeting right away is the only way to do it, what else can you do, create a relationship over email ?? stop being so hesitant. trying to set up a date after 50 emails would look creepy or worse, wussy. she would know what you are trying to do but clearly see you lack the courage to do it. never a good thing.

you don't need an opener, email or otherwise. you already had one.

Maybe I just shouldn't do it. I don't want to creep her out. Idk ...I'm having second thoughts