Hey everyone, I'm very new to all this, as in; this is my first day on the forums but I figure I get some advice from some veterans out there, or even intermediates.

There's this very cute girl in my class, who sits opposite side of the room. I've noticed her and all that, she sits near other people but not directly next to anyone. I haven't introduced myself to her yet, but I plan on doing so on monday with a simple "hey, i'm nathan." something easy and near impossible to screw up.

Anyway, I was wondering how fast or slow I should progress. In class I'm very outgoing, raise my hand often, challenge other people's opinions, and have made the class and teacher crack up more than a few times.

I should point out, some other guy in my class was chatting this girl up every day before and after class, sat near her and what not, and now he doesn't sit near her or talk to her at all. Maybe I'm overthinking this

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How old are ya and what sort of class is it?

classroom game is the easy but is also very slow at progressing. At least for me.

i'm 21 almost 22, and its "Culture, Identity and Education". This is an "entry" class ie. it is required class type for any new students this year. So, she's prob 18 or 19.

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"Maybe I'm overthinking this"....indeed.

dont think what to say to this"one girl",instead game every girl you think is cool and make it natural,dont build this crazy image of her in your head as if she's diff from other girls you've seen during the day,she's just another one..

the sooner you speak to her the better,but please..dont put her on a fucking pedestal.

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I don't intend to, its just one girl. There are plenty more, and hotter too.

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