Someone made a post earlier, and in their post, he asked the girl if she'd like to meet up with him sometime. "I was wondering if you'd like to meet up tomorrow for coffee" (to the original poster of this line, I mean absolutely no offense to you. I just felt that it would be a good example to use) Unfortunately, she said no.

When I want to ask a girl something, I phrase my question in the form of a statement. I tell her instead of asking her. Using the example above, he could have worded it something like "You seem pretty cool. Let's get together tomorrow for coffee". My question is still there, but I'm not actually asking. I'm telling her that we should get some coffee.

I use opinion openers from time to time. Instead of saying "Can I get your opinion on something", I say "Give me your opinion on something" or "Let me get your opinion on something". I'm not asking for permission. I'm telling her to give it to me. I also never say "I need an opinion". The word "need" rubs me the wrong way.

It's the same thing for phone numbers. Instead of "Can I" say "Give me"

Now I'm sure there is some psychological thing behind how I'm asking her the question. I definitely know there is some psychological thing for me personally. When I phrase my question in the form of a statement or tell her, I immediately feel like I'm the dominant one. I immediately feel that I'm in control. I immediately feel that I have established my role as the person in charge. This bug in my head seems to make my game that much stronger. I know it sounds weird, but this is just the way I think. A switch goes off when I know I've established dominance and it shows through in my game. The way I talk, stand, my conversation, everything!

I do not want to take credit for this. I know for a fact that I read this some where. It was one of the first things I read about when I first learned of PUA and it has helped my game out tremendously! Maybe someone else can elaborate more of the psychological aspect of it.