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^ That does not sound casual.
Message her something stupid to catch her attention like:
I just saw somebody steal your goat, msg back asap.
or
I'm going to rob a bank and jump into a submarine full of strippers, wanna join?
There's a good chance that she will respond like wtf?
then you can say:
Direct: I was bored and wanted to know if you were who I thought you were.
THEN you ask her more personal questions, or her opinion on something.
I.e. This is perfect timing, I need your opinion on something. I have a friend who told his girlfriend I love you, but he was drunk. He took it back when he was sober and he's gf is pissed, who do you think is right?
Her: blah blah blah.
This sets up something for you to talk about on a date, and trust me, there will be lots to talk about.
I hope that helps.
Well there are 2 reasons that trying to sound casual will make you seem try-hard.
1) You already have an established relationship with this person.
2) It is already clear that you are expressing interest. which I talked about in the post.
Take either approach and post your results.