Been a lurker on here for a little while now and got some great advice from reading topics.

I know this or something similar has probably been asked before but I cant seem to find any proper advice.

Not to be big headed but I think Im pretty decent looking. I dress well etc.

When I am out and about I often notice and catch woman looking at me.

That's as far as it ever gets though and its now starting to get annoying. I'm pretty sure Im not miss reading their signals becuase it happens so often. I just don't know how to go from there if I catch a HB looking at me

Anyone have any good advice on how to open?

Thanks

Smile, if she smiles back walk over there and introduce yourself.

if they're checking you out, then
Hey how is it going will work.
Or you can skip that and guess what's she's doing in a funny way.
Or go direct.

When I get a lot of IOIs, I always say: " Hey, are we gonna keep flirting from a distance [pause] or should I introduce myself?" If they were genuine IOIs she'll smile and/or laugh then you introduce yourself.

if a girl is checkin u out.. haha.. you can get them to open you... I do silly shit..
one time..I turned around and perked up my butt as if I was showin it off.. she laughed and came over..

also... shes already looking at you.. you can look at her and point at her..

or

look like.. what? you wanna fight? haha that works quite well and is very playful..

You can use Mystery's Middle finger.. which is also a cocky fun thing to do.. if delivered right.. it can be followed by if she gives u the middle finger back.. u can use his other gambit.. dont even start, I eat girls like you for breakfast.. trust me.. they are not use to that.. and u will see an IOI.. look for face or hair touching with that one..

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Keep doing that and I'll make you tremble...

Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

I get this A LOT as well... Im gonna try some of Genuines suggestions next time...

Ive also wondered, do girls give IOIs before meeting you as well?? because i see them play with their hair or brush their shoulder and im not sure if thats an IOI or shes just generally doing that?

in all honesty it could be both... and yes they do.. for instance.. observe when an attractive guy walks by a group of girls.. watch their reactions to him.. even though they did not interact.. he was noticed.. and their subconcious produces what we know as an IOI..

I believe IOI's should be in a couple diff categories.. such as.. ones done with intent.. like an outward compliment to you.. is an intended IOI.. but things such as biting bottom lip.. touching face.. stroking hair.. she isnt normally aware shes even doing it..

now.. dont do this right away.. but when you are more confident.. you can actually call a girl out.. and you can tell her.. that she is attracted to you.. and usually this will catch her off guard.. but then you can tell her how you know.. tell her what an IOI is.. and then you can start talking to her about how she should pay attention some time when she finds a guy attractive to what her body does.. its fun.. a girl recently was like.. OMG that is sooo not fair but yer sooo right!!! she wants to see me alot now.. just because she finds me fascinating that I know these things about women..
Just because a girl knows about "The Game" it doesnt mean it stops working.. They actually will be more likely to play along anyway.. or help a guy thats new at it..

Girls are def alot like kittens.. they love to play.. whether it be trivia, esp, horoscope, playful touching etc...
Really Pretty girls HB 8-10.. they are the same.. but at first.. you treat them like a bratty lil sis first.. then you let them play..


I am not the end all be all to the game.. I intend on being a life long student always learning more.. even if I get married and have kids.. the Game is very much about social interaction and helps in all social aspects of your life.. including career..

I am sure alot of the people on here will teach me alot..

and anything I can help with I will do my best.. or try to refer you to someone whom knows more on a particular topic..

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Keep doing that and I'll make you tremble...

Cutiest girl ask for more, unfortunately someone's creeping on my floor.. an empty glass a topless babe a knock at the door.. girlfriends girlfriends never could be more..

Good little thread, will take heed of this advice.

Last week at a bar for a friends b-day, I caught a girl staring at me. I used to look away and try and act as if I didn't notice, I figured it would make her uncomfertable if I made it know I noticed and she would clam up. This time I starred back and it was as if it took a few seconds for her to notice I was staring back. She smiled, I made sure I was already smileing. She looked bored with the people she was with even though they were talking directly to her so I walked over and took a seat next to her but with my shoulder to her. I kept myself in the conversation I was in and brought her into it over my shoulder. She obvoisly was happy about it cause within a few minutes she was almost in my lap. I just took it from there...

Thanks everyone!

Some great tips here.

Do you guys usually open even if she looks at you for a split-second?

I see this happening to me a lot (probably because of my clothes; I dress rather nicely, if I say so myself), but I don't react.

Ive had more success with a woman that looks at you, then you spring them looking at you and they quickly look away. BAM! walk over and move in.

Also i know what you mean, just watch her out of the corner of your eye and if she looks at you again, look back and move in.