I used to find a target, go for it and succeed almost every time. I was overconfident didnt care about being turned down and incredibly secure about myself and my game. I recently started a friends with benefits relationship with this girl. The sex I have been having with her has made me lose my motivation and when I hit on girls now, I sound like an amateur again. Worst of all, not only do i sound like one, but i feel like one. I have a feeling it has something to do with this girl... Im 21 and in a college fraternity where the girls are just looking for guys when they come to our parties. The opportunity is there, but my mind frame is not... Is this common? people have their hot streaks and cold streaks? I feel so cold like im back in highschool... please any tips on how to get my game back? I am considering just watching the whole mystery method video set to get the stuff I used to know ingrained back into my head.

the best thing you can do is just throw yourself into every set you see and just look to have a good time . Also maybe spend some time working on your inner game , i found david deangelo's stuff really usefull for this .

finally maybe youre developing feeling for this fuck buddy of yours ? obviously i cant say for sure but the fact that you included her in the post shows its on your mind a bit .

hope i helped.

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If you really want to elevate your game you should cut her off or see her less personally you sound just like me.. I think the challenge is what makes it fun exciting but a constant fuck buddy gets tiring/dull

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Also keep notes, and keep updating everything u have experienced in gaming, such as new tricks and approaches and mindsets etc. start a gaming diary pretty much, and keep track of all ur skills and ways, and to also refresh yourself.
Who knows, maybe one day u can pass these notes on to ur sons hehe.
Gaming is never plain, but u make ur own style of gaming after a while, so yea, keep track of ur style! Its not only like a diary, but also alot like a Martial Arts scroll or something.

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