If you think from her perspective, imagine you're a hot girl and lots of guys approach you. You have to filter (even unconsciously) the good and the bad ones, right? You're not going to fuck them all.
Now, you're walking in the street and this random guy approaches you and starts asking random questions. Why would you answer him? What interesting stuff he said for you to think it's worth the answer?
That thinking should set you in the right path. If not read some PU book to give you ideas.
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"Their compliance is,
'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries