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| alexrou | PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2010 7:30 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Sep 12, 2010 6:20 pm Posts: 1 | | Hey guys, new to the forum, just wanted some opinions:
The girl: HB9 waitress (~19-22 years), works in small hotel in a small town. Body language suggests fairly confident, talkative, maybe a flirty person. Taking into account that she works as a waitress she probably is somewhat experienced in dealing with people, and I'm sure she has been hit on before (I'm sure she has a bitchshield on standby in theese cases). She knows she's good looking, and because of this she has moderate to high confidence.
The economic situation of the town (and area) is pretty bad. Unemployment is high, life is though, opportunities are rare. We are talking about eastern Europe.
Me: 23 years old, have really great success with women after they get to know me. Have good career as a manager at a big company.
The situation: I often have to go to this region (aprox 250km from where I live) to work for 2-3 days. I stayed one time at the hotel where this girl works and I was just blown away. I didn't show interest because I decided to ponder the best way to approach this girl
Meanwhile I portrayed the image of a successfull young man with a continually ringing phone who works on his laptop while the food is cooking. I also tried being relatively decent and not to come out as a showoff.
PUAs I'm interested in your opinion in how would you approach this girl. Please take into account all of the above and know that this girl will see right through indirect openers that have nothing to do with the current situation.
Should I use a direct approach and ask her out for a coffee? What would U do?
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| PlayHer Man | PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 3:20 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Aug 15, 2010 1:09 am Posts: 375 Location: Bethesda MD | | You are already over-thinking it dude. Don't fall for that delusion that one woman is different from another. When you put a woman on a pedestal you increase your fear of rejection dramatically and this is very bad for your game. Don't assume there is something special about a girl until you get to know her.
Rule #1. Game FIRST... feel LATER.
With that said... the approach should be very direct and to the point (because she is at work.. not because there is anything special about her).
I would go with asking her opinion on a restaurant (since she works at a hotel). Then tell her: "I don't want to tie you up at work any longer, but I think you're cute. What do you think about grabbing a drink sometime?"
I've found that "cute" is the best compliment because it flatters girls in the 6 to 8 range and it nags the girls who are 10's and think they are the shit. _________________ Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think
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