Sup guys.

Some of you may know, I switched to daygame, and the way I feel most comfortable approaching is going indirect.

Most daygamers go direct, altough it is a strong way to approach, this is a hit and miss method something that personally troubles me a lot.

I prefer indirect approaches, because you buy yourself enough time to telegraph the right messages to the girl and create attraction. I have a higher success rate doing that.

Here's my opener, it may seem very basic, but it feels natural and congruent, plus I added a few transitions.


*Make sure you open in a STRONG way. This means no "excuse me" ' s or "can I ask you something" .... I had a lot of trouble capturing attention by being too polite.

*As you approach the woman, open first by making a subtle gesture, that you intend to stop her. When I'm 2-3 meters away from my target, as I walk towards her I make a subtle hand gesture that I'm going to stop her/that I request her attention. Of course keep your body language and body rocking in check.

*The opener is too short as it is, so speak more calmly and slowly,even use pauses to buy yourself time and to notice something about her, that you can mention and transition from afterwards.

- " Hi, I just want to ask something, I'm in a rush, so I've got only a second. "

(they always go with it)

- " I'm looking for (name of daytime venue), Know where it is? "

#1. She doesn't know:

- " Looks like you're just as lost as me huh? "

you can follow up with "where are you from" small talk, but I've had situations in which the girl asked me first (notice those IOIs)

#2. She does know:

- "Thanks, I asked you cause my friends called me, and said they are waiting for me there, and I realized that I can't even find where it is..."

follow up: - "Oh, and before I go, can you recommend a nightclub? It's obvious that we will want to continue the party somewhere else. We aren't from around here "

and you go off from there.


I have one more transition,

" Earlier I asked some kids for directions, but they sent me the wrong way, of course you won't screw me up like that? (in a joking way) "

it never worked for me that well, if someone can test it out as much as possible I'll be grateful.


This is it from me. As I field test more scripts I might post them as well.

To the canned opener haters : Save your breath. Don't even bother posting....

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