whenever im infeild i look and act confidently but it seems impossible for me to open sets i end up walking around. But i no i can do it i no i can if i keep working at it im sure everyone has been in this position before and so many have crossed it that i no i can. i hesitate quite a bit, whenever im at the crucial stage i always say to myself ther is a perfect chance NOW but i find it hard to approach. Ive done it before butonly on fluke occasions. in those 3 seconds i need help to approach any advice ? thanks you guys

You need to approach to get rid of your AA, once you have approached BAM! youll be in ...

Think of it like this...

If you screw up even 200 times, you wont be so nervous and hesitant on approaching so all you need to do is just go for it.

Who cares if they are not interested in you, right now you should just be getting over this AA and once it is gone girls will be rolling in as fast as someone winning the jackpot from a slot machine!

Have fun

that some sik advice BUT... its all very well and good for me to agree with you now its just......in actual feild i kinda forget but anyway what helped u to really do your first approach how did u overcome it

My first approach was actually on holiday and i just thought to myself and told my mate, if we fuck up who cares? never gonna see these girls again !

The same could apply to you or you might see them again maybe in a month but by then you would have approached so many girls you wouldnt have recognised them right?

Also just being calm before you open helps A LOT, just distract yourself or your wingman if you ever go with someone if you/they get AA then slowly walk near by them and just approach.

Just need to not care about rejection and think to yourself the worst that can happen is NOTHING HUGE! the best that can happen is LTR or a LAY!! which im sure youll want that!

So just go pratice mate!

Good luck lemme know how it goes and ill tell you how my sarging goes tomorrow if i see any girls!!

And remember... you need to have fun!! because after all it is all a game

Dude, I am kind of in your boat right now. I am an rAFC, right now I am approaching girls primarily at my school but for extra practice I goto the mall.

A while back I went to the mall and opened 10+ women. Usually by themselves. To overcome my AA I had a canned opener which was: Where is the bubble tea store?

Tried to strike up conversation.

I have had recurrences of my AA but it goes away slowly. If at first you cannot talk to groups start with single women, if at first you can't talk to single women, talk to older women.

In my case when I did enough approaches I became bolder and more confident. I am still not as confident as I could be. But I am doing the approaches which makes me happy. Trust me, it sucks for awhile but do the approaches and you will thank yourself afterwards for having done them.

Remember focus on recovering from AA, not on the outcome. When you overcome your AA I agree with the person above, women will be flocking towards you and you will be having awesome conversations with complete strangers.

One step at a time.

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This is a GREAT idea, but it also reminded me of first day gaming, on my 3rd set i think i opened a 7-8 set of women that were 5-6 years older than me (im 17 you do the math)

It didnt go too well because i didnt open on the dominant woman of the group but i was tipsy and that tbh was VERY effective on actually making me go open to them i bailed on them before the "leader" of their group tried dragging them away even though some were intrigued by my question! so if you ever have the chance just open a huge group if your up for the challenge...

Go in with a huge friendly smile, be confident and just talk to them for as long as you can, put a time restraint incase you need to bail!! you never know since it may be one of your first days...

But its like this - If you run before you can walk, walking will be nothing but a small and insignificant move!!

Try it if you can, if not build your way up!!

i know how you feel! one thing that helped me was to ask myself...whats the worst that can happen? will i be harmed in any way? no. am i in any danger? no. well the worst that can happen is she will say no and walk away...its a good thing you're in a mall full of women!

i know how you feel! one thing that helped me was to ask myself...whats the worst that can happen? will i be harmed in any way? no. am i in any danger? no. well the worst that can happen is she will say no and walk away...its a good thing you're in a mall full of women!

for all those struggling with AA right now. The fact that so many over penetrated through and come out triumphant on the otherside is reassuring in itself, i actually think its hard not to get over this because each time i sarge it gets ever so slightly easier.