Hey fellas, I have been having a big problem lately of gathering courage to even approach women. As contradictory as it seems I am natural once I OPEN and have probably well over 75% success rate in closing once i do approach, but getting to the point of approaching is hard for me. I lost so many opportunities like this!

Example: Im out and establish eye contact with a girl. I hold the eye contact with a girl until she looks away (on occasion I get the obvious signs such as smile along with looking down) and I still don't approach. I just stand there and think "here you go, she is giving herself out to you and you cant approach her". It is very frustrating. For what is worth I really dislike formula openers and have had the best luck with honest approach of introducing myself and starting with simple small talk. Looks help, but that will not get me far with fear of approach!!!


any help appreciated!

well my friend this isnt something we can just magically fix... theres no cocky funny or push pull lines to get u out of that. thats all inside you man. when i started approaching (really not too long ago) i had tha same trouble. but i was tired of letting these fine ass bitches just walk by me. I went with the "fuck it" attitude lol if she doesnt like me, fuck it lol imma pimp haha i got three more just like her and thats wat its all about man. Also, idk if this will help you out but it helped my friend out. i told him to create a different persona... like in "youth in revolt" and approach as a different character, an outside character, no one gets to see the inside or the real you cuz truth be told you dont owe anyone any fuckin truth haha

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thanks! i like the "hi" approach. simple way to test water without making me nervous.

it is weird because i have phases. for example last summer i was approaching 20 women per month (not a lot, but it is for me) and then over winter and now into summer my balls just shrank to approach