| 7 Point Escalation Model
This is a model I follow to successfully approach, attract and seduce women. It is modeled after
some of the most successful models of PUA in the world. Most of the phases you will recognize
but I have included two new phases as I think they are crucial. Two new phases are 1. Pre open
value calibration phase and 2. The hook phase.
1. Pre-attract Phase
(Clothes, social proof, body language, etc.) You must calibrate your social value to the set before
you even open your mouth. Alot of guys shoot themselves in the foot before they even open their
mouths and get blown out, simply on nonverbals. If you are going to open a 10, you must raise
your "PRE-OPENER " Value before the set will even let you game them.
2. Opener
Must be non sequitur and must not convey any interest. I always use “Guys first impression these
rings”. I wear these big chunky rings… Blows open sets in clubs like crazy. Or you can use “hey
guys first impression these necklaces.” I have some weird, gothic style necklaces that I wear. Or
“How tall are you?”
In a Mall, I use an opinion opener and have stacked routines or stories that segue from that. Each
stacked routine has very little or no relationship with the previous thread. This idea of multiple
threading, or stacking routines is an art form and we must get good at this.
NOW REMEMBER with a 10 you must Negg her to disqualify yourself from appearing like a
potential "hitter" or "suitor" to her and her peer group if they are there. I will say things like:
“Too bad you’re not my type because you are really pretty.” Or “Hey guys my name is "PUA". I
just had to come by and ask you guys something. Let me see I need the most interesting one
here. Not sure about you… (Pointing to the target) but how about you to one of the cockblocks?
Do you believe in magic, or whatever.
I will also sometimes give an HB ten "the finger" and she will usually say, WTF?, but in an
attracted way. If they say, “You're a jerk,” you have to be prepared for that contingency. I reply,
“Look knucklehead, in my country that is a sign of affection!!!! I am being social, come on get up
to speed. !!!”
I will also say, “Look I’ve been wanting to talk to you but you are surrounded by all of your friends,
I don't know why yet I mean you are pretty but who cares beauty is common, so who are you or
what do you have going on for you besides your looks?” If she says, well I'm smart. I will say "And
that is special because......."
Once at this high bitch shield club, we had 7 girls hanging off of our arms. How? I gave the 10 a
finger and this baited her to open me. See this type of stuff immediately conveys that you must be
getting laid because who disqualifies themselves like this. NO one!!! Only a real alpha male who
is already getting girls, socially proofed through the roof. OK so now once you have opened, you
need to
3. Attract
How? by demo'ing higher value to the whole group which stands for demonstration of higher
value. The best way I have found is by telling stories. I have a few stories at the bottom that I will
tell the whole group. Storytelling is an art and must convey that you possess characteristics of an
alpha male, like 1. You are pre selected ( my ex who was an exotic dancer...." 2. You are the
leader of men and 3. I have standards for myself and for
women I date.
You may also show higher value using cool things like a massage technique, palm reading, cold
reading, dance moves, show her cool massage tips, etc. But I reserve these more for when I am
alone with her in the comfort or rapport phase or if she is in a two set with another chick or guy.
When you are showing higher value to the group, you must "falsely disqualify" to the target, to
disarm her friends by letting them know that you can't possibly be there acting as a potential
suitor for her, and to get her seeking your validation. Now if someone goes "yeah right or
whatever...” because your story is canned and they don't believe you, you say “Please get a life”,
and then continue. This will get the girl to chase you.
If I'm telling a story about how my ex gave me coupons for various sexual favors for Valentines
Day which she made, (True story by the way) and one of the girls goes “ewww that is gross!” I will
say, “Whatever....too bad you're not my type” and continue with the story.
Always maintain the set. Own the set. When you own the guys the girls will follow one by one
too. Also when you demonstrate the mentality of "I am here conveying my personality and if you
don't like it, go fuck yourself" that is very attractive. So always maintain your frame. The purpose
of the attract phase is to get set to reach the Hook Phase.
4. Hook
This is the point whereby you have peaked the groups or set's interest so much they do not want
you to go. I usually do this with 4-5 killer stories I have (some real and some made up) and also
by stories to the group about my knowledge of certain things, facts, geography, or places I've
been. Also with lone wolves or 2 sets I will hook them by saying “Holy shit your hand...” and then
go into the palm reading or hand structure routine. They always respond with curiosity and say
"What, what, tell me!”
See how they are all NON SEXUAL, I ain't hitting on the girl. I’m just being an interesting guy to
the group, if there are males or other females in there, I have just by having them listen to me,
conveyed higher value than the males because I am controlling their frame, disengaged any fears
that I am there to hit on her from the male/females by lowering the self esteem of the target.
Remember the real purpose of the value Negg is to disqualify yourself "falsely" from appearing like
a potential suitor.
NOTE: Attract phase is only 2-5 minutes. Most guys make the mistake of staying in this phase
way too long. They appear like dancing monkeys. Always remember to phase shift guys. So
after 2-5 minutes, you will see interest being generated, then you can test to see if you are in the
screening phase by "baiting the girl" so go into the next phase.
You can also see if she is attracted by doing certain touch escalation tests and see if she passes
(trust test, tension test, sticking out your hand and see if she grabs it).
You can also use verbal baits and see if she will bite. Baits are verbal questions that bait her to
provide illusionary input to your screens. Usually if a woman is attracted to you, she will want to
jump through your hoops or pass your screens.
Some of the lines I use are, “You are very pretty, but so what, looks is common, it's like winning
the lottery in the gene pool. I'm curious about you. What do you have going on for you besides
your looks?” If she answers, then I know I am in this phase. If not and she gives me a cocky
response like "Why do you want to know?” or “I am not answering that," Then you need to then
Negg her because you are still in "Attract her" phase. You can say "Truthfully I was just
being polite… I really wasn't interested" then stack another story to her peer group. This will get
her chasing you and will create attraction.
Then when you go into screen/accepting her, she will jump through your hoops. I am calibrating
what phase I am in and using various gambits, negg and stories to make sure that I move
her along the 7 point escalation model. So once she is biting the bait you are in the next phase
which is,
5. Screen/Accept
Or "She needs to attract" phase. So you have showed higher value to her and she gave you
signs of interest, now she needs to attract you.
So you bait her and allow her to DHV to you. You accept with touch or space invading and then
release and say "Wait shit. I can't even talk to you now" and do a back turn or look away. She will
reinitiate if she is attracted and will start to game you. In fact you need to be switching the
screen/chase switch in the attract phase to get her contributing to the pick up to prevent her
circuits from being overkilled by being in a reactive zone.
You then also do this cycle a few times in the screen phase to make her feel that she is working
to win you over and to make her feel that your signs of interest to her have been earned and are
legit, not fake. After the 3rd cycle, you finally accept and go into the rapport/comfort and trust
stage, where you can state your interest. This phase is signatured with touch escalation, location
changing and comfort/rapport building routines.
6. Rapport/Comfort
Involves getting more comfortable with each others touch, closeness, so touch escalation is the
key here and comfort building routines. You can then 1. Bounce or isolate to another venue or 2.
Time bridge to a second day when you can hang out.
A few killer routines are EV, Evolution phase shift routine to makeout, grounding your identity to
her reality, Role playing, Pair Bonding, Saying to her "I think you've hijacked my brain babe" etc...
Once the comfort building and touch escalation is in progress it will get more intimate, more
sexual...until it leads to a…
7. Close.
A lay, or a time bridge.
NOTE: You will have to deal with last minute resistance often but the more venue changes you
make, and the more time you spend with the girl, she will believe that she "got to you emotionally"
and you will stick around, not just go in for the kill and leave.
Illustrating the 7 point escalation theory: Field Report
A hot girl is standing by the bar. I open with “Hey, can you tell tom I was looking for him, please ...
?”
Her: “Okay, but I’m looking for Jason.”
PUA: “OK tell you what. If I see Jason, I will tell him that "brattypants" is looking for him,
okay?”
Her: “What?!” laughing. “What did you call me?”
I ignored her. I then catch her again. And then I re-initiate the chat as I am leaving and say, “So.
Betsy, did you catch my friend?”
Her: “My name is not Betsy, silly… its x.... and no, I haven't… sorry.”
PUA: “Come on champ... what are you good for?”
Her: “Hey, do you smoke?”
PUA: “Yes.”
It was a little white lie to come out with her and isolate. So we go outside...and then I see a bus
shelter. She bums a smoke from a neighboring couple and then I lead her and say, “Hey come
here....(always lead). We sit down.
Her: “So do you know why I came here?”
PUA: “Why?”
Her: “Well I met this cute guy online and his name is Jason and we exchanged numbers and he’s
supposed to be here with his friends… and I’m here with my friends but I can't find them.”
PUA: “Well you better go and look for them....” (Push her away).
Her: “No its okay.”
Then as she is rambling on about Jason and her friends and all this boring shit, my head is
looking straight, not looking at her. She is turning her head and I am making her lean in to talk to
me. (People of higher value DO NOT REACT and CONFORM their body).
After hearing her story for 2 minutes, I say to her, “I don't like your shoes!!!!!”
Her: “But I love them and they’re pretty.”
PUA: “They are, but they are not my type. It’s like a woman… she can be pretty, but just
ain't my type. So as for your shoes, they’re gorgeous, but I hate them... Oh, but I do love your
scarf… you know you can actually tell alot about people through 3 things, you know that? One is
their shoes and the other is their facial structure.”
This was an open loop because I said there are 3 things but only mentioned two. Naturally this
baited her (HOOK POINT) to ask me what the third is.
Notice the use of push/pull.
PUA: “Wait, before I tell you this very interesting thing, I am kind of curious about you, what
else do you have going on for you besides looks?”
I was testing to see if I was in the screen phase, because if I was, then she would jump through
my hoops. In other words, if she answered me, then that means she was attracted. If she didn't
answer or gave a cocky response, I just needed to Negg her, or DHV to her to attract her.
Now I calibrated that this girl’s self esteem was at a 7, so I would really compromise on the Negg.
So Instead I would have told her a story about how women find me irresistible because I am
Indian, circumcised, can give great massages, and how my ex made me coupons on Valentines
day entitling me to sexual favors… which is a true story which I have posted in one of my other
posts. This would have conveyed that I possess alpha male characteristics.
But there was no need for that, because she jumped through my screen. At each spike of
acceptance, I would touch her, give her a hug, but then take it away and say “I can't even talk to
you now,” back turn or silent SPAM. Then I would bait her again.
After a few minutes I finally said, “You are cool… we can hang.”
If she re-initiated and asked “Why?”… Which she did, I now know that she is attracted to me,
because she is "contributing" to the game and to picking me up. She is now working to win me
over.
I also did many touch escalation basics, like stick out my hand. She bit it and took it.
Pass
Then I would remove it… taking the emotion away. Then stack another story. Then escalation the
touch again, but this time more and invade her space more. Then take it away, push here away.
This is creating a snake like dance or push-pull dynamic. She was so into me at this time.
We then went inside.
PUA: “K well you are cool, but wait... I want to see something. Come here.”
I did the Trust test.
There are 3 steps to my trust test:
1. Hand over hand, if she lowers with me she passes. I then gave her a signal of interest.
2. I do the tension test. I squeeze her hand and she doesn't squeeze back, I turn away from her
and give her a disappointed body language signal. She feels the discomfort and asks what's
wrong.
PUA: “You're supposed to do this.” And I say, “k this time squeeze back.”
I am getting her used to massaging my hand and touching me.
3. I hold her hands and then I fall back, most girls I do this to, will grab me and prevent me from
falling, it is also a great way for a make out, because while she is holding you up, you can just pull
her towards you to relieve the tension and say, “I want to thank you for saving me baby!!”
Then kiss her.
With this chick, it climaxed with a long ass hug and necking. Her friends were there so I didn't
want to activate the ASD.
Also I couldn't isolate so I went for a time bridge. I basically set up a future date in time, and then
went for the number.
This way we have a reason to exchange numbers and this minimizes flaking. So if you guys are
wondering how to minimize flaking:
Solidify point a: Make sure you attract her and then time bridge to solidify point b.
I will set up a second day with her this week and take things from there.
My friend also followed this model and had an HB 8 all over him dropping hints about hooking up
and gave him her number without him even asking.
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