i go to house parties and im a little new to this i approach women but some times dnt koe what to say to open them up. I feel like awkard. Also How can
i make myself seem and look more intresting to others and beyond others???anyy tips?

Hey Joey, welcome to the community and glad your here serious to learn.

The feeling of not knowing what to say is because your unprepared, and you fix this by preparing now. You know for a fact that at sometime in the future your going to have another interaction with a women, so get whatever you want to say stored up in your head and when the time comes you'll be ready to pull one of those "canned" openers out of the hat. After a few runs you'll start to get a feel for what works for you, and you can fine tune it.

Openers can be spontaneous as well, if something just comes to your mind and you think itz mac use it.

P.S. This is not the same thing as a script, you are not obligated to follow your mental plan verbatim. It should just be there as a default.

^Summarized: Know Yourself^

Different things are interesting to different people. The best way to know what other people are interested in is to listen. They'll give you the topic specifically. If it wasn't interesting to them, it wouldn't be on their mind. How much more so when it's on their lips?

^Summarized: Know Your Adversary^