So, I notice that after ive built rapport with a girl and shes comfortable around me, plenty of EC, negging, all that good stuff and I ask for her number... Ive noticed that the past four girls' whose number i ended up closing, each girl grinned and ask "why?." For the first two girls it kinda caught me off guard and i just asked "why not?" right back. The second time I came back "because i want to see if there is a personality behind that cute smile." and then last time i said "how else am i going to call you every day without your number?"

the fact that she is grinning could mean one of two things imo
1.she is genuinely happy that i am asking for her number.
2.she is just liking the attention and giving me a shit test.

Anybody else have this reaction often? any good canned comebacks?

The fact that she is smiling would indicate happiness to give you her number,
however asked why is definately a shit test.

The "because i want to see if there is a personality behind that cute smile." is your
best response.

However I'd try instead of asking for her number, ask her when or why she hasn't
asked for your number. *Note this will only work if you've spent a fair amount of
time together and you connected to some degree.

You can avoid that question by clearly stating your intentions, and by having a time constraint.

I think an effective way to do it is to pull out your phone while saying something like, "Me and my friends are leaving pretty soon, but I liked talking to you and I think we should hang out sometime. What's your number?"

Have the phone in your hand by this time with your finger on the keys ready to type the first number.

If she is interested in you at all, she'll submit and give you the number, even if there is a small shit test. If she's not, then you don't have a chance with her anyway, unless you go back and work on the fundamentals and get her attraction level up more.

One possible shit test you'll get with this is, "You should give me your number, I don't give my number out." Last time that happened my reply was (while smiling to convey that I wasn't upset), "It doesn't work that way with me. If you want to give me your number that's cool, if not it's no big deal."

SHOW A WILLINGNESS TO WALK AWAY.

If the interest level is there, she will not want to lose you, and you'll get the number.


A good tip my wing told me about is to be sure to stay and talk with her for at least a couple of minutes after getting the number, don't leave immediately after unless you absolutely have to. That way it doesn't look like you were just after one thing.

This guy basically just said verbatim what most pick-up material states. Spot on, and exactly what you should be doing.