There are tons of questions about it "how do I approach a girl at a club?", "what do I do when the music is too loud?", "how don I convey alpha at a club?"

..well there is something that Tyler Durten said "either the club gets you or you get to the club"
When you enter a club you're being watched and filtered, basically like anybody, like you, you check out all the people around and make assumptions about them. Verbal approaches can't always work because people can't hear you or they are dancing, just grabbing chicks or starting to dance with them might be too offensive, beside if you're being seen turned down this way it's obviously a DLV.

So StreetLight.. how DO I act at a club, not to look to needy but still approach women?

...well, STOP for a second, don't "hunt" stop staring and looking for sets to open if you can't talk, try to enjoy the moment now, sometimes staying stationary is actually a DHV. Chicks can see you're confident and you're NOT needy, you don't just try to get any girl.. hold you're drink, enjoy it, dance be silly SMILE!!! If and when you approach make it silly and funny, try a few "clownish" aproaches, dance like it's the 80's, don't try to forcefully pull a girl to dance with you... and the best way is flirt with you're body language... HOLD EYE CONTACT IN A SEXY WAY.. and learn to smile like a Don Juan.. girls will open YOU if you're confident not needy... after a few girls will approach and dance with you you will already be pre selected.

Just try NOT to be nervous next time you go out (especially if you're alone), try thees techniques and you will find yourself in 3 sets of chick which are attracted to you, from there just play the field like you know you can..

LUCK...

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

It's very important that you DONT BLOW OUT THE ROOM. If you walk around scoping everyone out like you're on the prowl, everyone will know. sit back. relax. WALK SLOW.

DONT BE A TOURIST!

Have you ever been in a tourist area you are familiar with and the regulars are very comfortable and aren't looking around? while the tourists are moving their heads from side to side like they need to see everything?

that is how MOST men act in a club. their heads are moving and they are blatantly scoping out girls and this comes off as CREEPY

Walk in slow...find a good high volume spot to post up at the bar and let the girls at the club speed date you. They will come up looking for a drink and give you an easy angle of approach. If you blow out the set, there will be a new one next round.

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