Hey guys

I am new here, but not new to pickup. I had a rough last year, so had to put my romantic love life on the backburner, but now I want to snap out of the funk and get back in the game. Anyway, instead of making a post in the newbie section I thought, I would get your opinions on the caveman style.

I use caveman style a lot in my sarges. Usually I reserve it for the kiss close (which is awesome) or I use it in a push-pull to create some drama (hate/love thing), but sometimes I just go all out caveman. What I mean by this is simply skip any form of opening or convo and just grab a girl and get physical.

This may seem like it's not pickup at all, but I think guys who have tried this knows that you really need your shit together to pull it off or be labeled a creep/slap in the face.

I usually go caveman right of the bat, when I am in a great frame and feeling on top of the world. Usually I have been in several sets already and maybe have some social proof from girls seeing me. Then I just grab a girl (she must face me of course), give her a sly smile and pull her close. So far so good, some girls get really turned on by this right away, by the pure audacity of this move. I encourage guys to try this once just to see how a dominant move like this can trigger a girls attraction switches. Anyway, then I either say something irrelavnt cocky funny or just go for the makeout. That's not really important.

I do struggle when I go caveman with going further. You'd think that if you made out with a girl like this, then she'd be ready for more, but imo, it's not that easy. You really need to build comfort AFTERWARDS which is kinda different from attract-comfort-close. Since I have already closed to some degree, the question is how to frame what just happened so that the girl can feel comfortable with me.

I really haven't figured out how to do this best? I get a lot of resistance. A lot of: "Are you a player?", "I won't sleep with you", "Do you do this a lot?"

Some girls will be really turned on and come up with all kind of rationalizations for going home with me/taking me home.

Can it work better? I am not sure. Imo, it's actually quite easy to do a caveman with the right attitude, but it's really hard work afterward at working trough the guilt feeling and 'anti-slut' response. Maybe I am doing it wrong?

Thoughts?

Hey man I've done cave man although I usually have a few drinks before I can pull it off. LOL! Whatever works in my opinion! It's amazing what you can get women to do with the right attitude. A lot of my friends don't even believe it's possible to just go up and grab a girl and get with her that fast. Then they stand there in amazement when I do. But I rarely do caveman.

So anyway I don't know if I'm telling you anything you don't already know. Going caveman can be good for pulling the chick and getting her alone or to go on a mini date with you. Depending on your goal you probably still need to go through the normal BS of getting her comfortable, kino, and blah blah blah you know the rest. I mean unless you just want a quick hook up on the spot then who cares about building comfort and all that crap.