It seems like every beautiful girl I want to approach either headphones in or is in the library and more often than not, both. As I'm typing this there is an HB8 sitting across from me at table studying with headphones in, I would love to approach her, but getting her attention and doing so quietly seems impossible. I also feel kind of awkward hitting on a girl while she is getting intimate with her textbook. In fact when I look around, many women have headphones in, how do you approach a girl and open her when she is jamming out or studying really hard?

Write a short note with your facebook. When you walk by her (as you are leaving), tell her "Hi, I think you dropped this". Make sure it is folded up.