ok so youre talking with a girl at a bar, ok, youre already in set like 10-15 minutes, building comfort.

so two scenarios..

she says, "buy me a drink/can you buy me a drink"
player: well lets make it fun
she: ?
player: lets thumb war for a drink

so you thumb war, and lets assume you the player wins

she buys drinks.. you tell her

player:"i'll give you another chance, double or nothing"
she: oh ok neat/ ok how?
player: thumb war, if you win i buy the next round, if i win, (point to your face) and say "a kiss"

the other situation would be that she actually wins the thumb war in which case you say u want to do double or nothing, and if you lose again you buy more drinks, but if u lose you get a kiss

the only problem i see here is that you are in effect competing for a kiss, so maybe DLV'ing yourself

thoughts?

when i get asked to buy a drink or something, i like say things like...

"you buy the first round, if you keep me entertained enough maybe il buy the second."

Il come back quickly with like "Are you trying to pick me up?" with a confused disgusted look

or like "does that usually work?"

or i love... "how about we play alittle game for a drink instead" and play the 5 QUESTION / 5 LIES GAME