Hi All

So I'm in my usual pickup spot today (Starbucks) and I see this amazingly hot blonde chick walk in. She went and sat alone to drink her coffee. Anyhoo, after she'd been sitting there, I decided I needed the loo, and since she was sat by the entrance to the toilets, I figured I might try a pickup. The setup was perfect. Approaching the toilets from where I was meant walking past her at a slight angle, so it wasn't too confrontational, and also I could pass off talking to her as if it was a last minute thought whilst on the way to the loo. It was the perfect setup. Anyhoo, I walk past her, and she looks up and smiles, I smile back then shit...

I couldn't think of an opener. I walked past and went to the loo, figuring I'd use the minute or two in there to think of an opener for on the way back, but I couldn't think of anything. It was like a total brain freeze. Normally my problem is Approach Anxiety, but I didn't have that this time. I really was up for picking her up, but I just couldn't think of a way to start things off.

This is the first time this has EVER happened to me. I'm a pretty gobby bloke and talking bullshit generally comes quite naturally to me but I couldn't think of a thing to say.

Has this ever happened to anyone else before. How do you conquer it?

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Yep. Happened to me too last week. In a club setting tough. HB10 blond standing near me with her friends waiting to get opened. I opened directly. She liked it, but I couldn't come up with anything to continue. Frustrating, I know. She waited for another few minutes standing near me, giving me another chance to continue. Again, I failed. Brain freeze.

I guess the brain freeze is just something that comes from time to time when encountering a true HB10. They just overwhelm you. The only way to conquer it, is by bringing them down in your mind to a HB7 or so I guess. Or just have lots and lots of experience with HB10's, so she won't sweep you from your feet next time.

But then again, HB10's are rare. So building experience with them isn't easy.

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you should just walked over there and sit with her
wats up you seem interesting i wanted to meet you, amd find out if theres more to you then meets the eye ?

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ask her, if she went to your school.. she'll say no.. Ya you really look like a girl that did.. sit down wuith her and neg her about being a loser eating by herself.. then sit with her, take it from there.. She made eye contact and smiled at you. You can go direct. and she's sitting by herself..

P.s...
Pickin up girls at starbucks can b fun.. Try btinging a laptop with you to starbucks (i know you in this situation u didn't).. It works.. and say "yo check out this video, its funny." then show them some stupid gay youtube video of a baby dancing or something. they'll laugh and think its cute, cuz girls have that type of sense of humore.. worked 1/1 times with me, but i'm 100 prcent sure it will always work cuz you just want to make them laugh..