i am now friends on facebook with a girl i never really talked to. She sent a message saying we never really talked much but i thought u were cool. Is this showing shes interested and what should i say next.

um, set up a day 2 lol


"yeah, i know! we should get together and talk over some sushi tomorrow night!"

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I'd throw a little DHV in there,

"Yeah, I know! I'm really busy for most of this week though, what are you up to wednesday evening? You like cocktails right?"

This way it sounds like it was her idea to meet up and is much more powerful, also you're leading with the cocktail question and it's harder for her to say no.

Also I don't like dinner dates, there's too much pressure and if you don't know each other well it can be uncomfortable for her, you should aim to create comfort as soon as possible, that's why I always do bar dates - Less pressure + a little drink + sociable SPAM = COMFORT BABY!

P.S. Just noticed you didn't give any background to how you two met, was it at a aclub? Was it from college or what? And how well do you know each other?

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I find that these typical dinner date issues don't apply to a good sushi place haha

order a role straight from the chef, and give him no specifics and let him be creative, share the roll, then move onto to something else.

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i met her in college last year and she is in alabama right now and i'm in new york

Ok, then go out and meet some new women.

Have you read the game by Neil Strauss?

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I would say keep up the communication, keep it friendly but occasionally throw in a sexual joke or a story about a girl you had some success with. Just don't come across as bragging.

Then if she plans on coming back home for a weekend or something you can escalate a little more leading up to that. By that I mean flirt a little more with her, tease her a bit, then set up a date with her.

Best of luck.

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