i know this seems lame but basically...

theres this girl who i know likes me, but weve never spoken before. theres no situation where we would naturally be together, as none of our friends are the same and we wouldnt see each other in day to day life. however, i do have her added on facebook but have never spoken to her. is there any way i can open this up without just randomly being like "Hi..blah blah blah" and looking like a weirdo.

cheers

Send her a fun opener, for example.....

You: Congratulations!
Target: For what? (or why?, etc.)
You: I was just thinking about you. Congratulations

She'll probably respond with, "oh, how sweet" or "how cute". Then from there move into your typical game routines, talk fluff, etc. Just act as if you've always been best buds, it will make the conversation seem natural and fun. Remember, confidence is key.

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<Jac>

hmmmm...the only thing is that im 18, shes 16 and ive found that that sorta stuff doesnt really work on young ppl coz they ofen dont have the confidence to respond or just find it kinda wierd coz theve never really been hit on before or had experience in dealing with someone coming onto them =S .. sorry to shoot that suggestion down!! haha

Well I'd try a canned text/online opener.

This might help....
list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html

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<Jac>

The younger they are the easier to run game on them. All you really need to do is say hey..do some fluff talk..say you gotta go and then ask for her number. If she was older you would have to put in more work.

the other day i said something like this to a girl who friended me...

"do we know eachother or did just friend me because i'm dead sexy?"

cf in this situation never fails.

once she responds you can follow it up with something a little more conversational

remember- people are generally conversationalist, you can just talk about the here and now, if she's in to you it'll flow
(make sure you create a s o l i d - p r o f i l e : I can not stress this enough.).

or, just go with Mr. Style (I think this is the best way, hats off to him): Bash her about the profile (picture, quotes, combinations, whatever - just keep the C&F) then give her a hoop to jump threw.

If she likes you, then you're already over-analyzing. There's no need to be unsure about opening when it's a given that her response will be positive as long as you don't say anything weird/f'd up. Just start a conversation even if it's "hey what's up?"

And define "like." Do you mean physically attracted.. ? Because I have had girls like me in high school who I didn't even talk to - and they turned out to be the weird ones. I don't understand how they could "like" me without even knowing how I was like since we never talked/had any real interaction. I'm assuming that if she "likes" you then you must already have interaction, how else would you have each other on facebook?

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"This is your reality. It is what you make it"

I agree, her youth is not some magical protection against a solid game plan....Just be careful with the jailbait, bra!

It's true, younger girls are easier to game.

The more cocky funny you are, and the more mature you come off, the more they're going to want you.

All girls are attracted to their older brother's friends.

Push-pull is very effective. Make sure it's always two steps forward, one step back.

And Finally, make her work for ever ounce of attention or affection you give her.

Remember, you already know she's attracted to you.

FYI: I don't condone anything illegal with anyone who is underage.

Actually the younger they are the better this stuff will work....Stop making excuses and give it a shot....Worst case scenario, she doesnt respond....OMG!!! What did you lose?? Nothing you never spoke to her to begin with..

In most states its legal for a 18 yr old to be w/ 16....I'm not sure if its 2 or 3 yrs but there's some kind of stipulation to the underaged thing....in his case its most likely legal

I mean think about it....Whats the diff b/w a 17 yr old (most states legal) and a 16 year old (not legal) not much....So there's some lee way....

Just sayin