This girl I casually know from the area ran into me and my wingman in a danceclub and she was really drunk. She was also with her female friend. Anyway, I made out with her, got her outside the danceclub but when I suggested we go back to her place she backed up and said no (in a giggly way). She went back in where I continued kino with her, kissed her neck etc. Sometimes she'd pull away, the next minute she's grabbing my crotch. Anyway she finally tells her friend she wants to leave and me and my wingman walk her to her house with her friend. She hugs me goodbye and thats it.

I keep beating myself up over this but I see this girl all the time in the area. Whats the next step and did I mess anything up? I dont know if I did anything wrong, or if she just didnt want to put out right away. Whats your opinion? Did I f it up? Or did I do OK?

Dude u should be proud that you've acomplished that much...I say you play it cool and try to keep your composure. There could be a million things goin on with her...ex. too much alcohol, too little discression with the room mates around, that time of the month. To decrease buyers remorse or her anti slut defense, you should really emphasize more privacy next time but keep up the kino and if she wants to play little games then play em right back...once u start chasing her you start losing your power. You'll do fine broski, just relax (you seem a little worked up in ur post ha)...there's plenty of women out there and your a valuable guy, right? Right.

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This grl def will f-close.. dudes right tho.. dont lose the upperhand by giving her too much attention.. I would hope you have this girls number.. my best advice to seal the deal is isolate her to a party.. a party where you could isolate to a seperate room.. Do not chase her or follow her around, remeber u can do without her.. keep good kino and slowly escalate.. Isolate and execute

Plan B
Keep a bottle of rum and some Bacardi Mixers or something at ur house..
When u see her out.. keep good kino.. and invite her and who ever back to ur place.. mention the mixers ; )

Regards,
Fresh

Sam,

From what I read, she had the upper hand the whole time. You have to be the one pushing and pulling not her.

Two steps forward, one step back.

Also, since you already knew her, I wouldn't call/text.

If she asks you if you're going to be at the same club, let her know you're going out with a couple lady friends, and that you may run into her later. -This demonstrates higher value by A) having plans B) hanging out with competing girls

Just play it cool, and keep all the options open.