I was wondering if any of you guys had some great openers for at the gym or things to get the conversation going ?
thanks for any advice

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To me the gym is about working out, unless you know them leave them alone. I can't stand being in the middle of a run and having someone come for a chat.. I already can't breath thanks!

Or if its weights then I'd rather concentrate on flexing those muscles then try and hear what you have to say.

Even if I'm between excersises I'd rather be left alone.

All this applies to my female gym goers. None of them can stand any man approaching them. When its done at the gym it seems more like wow, so you saw my body like it and now you want to fuck it, get outta here.


The only expection I have ran into is a girl that has been making sure she gets good looks at me when she thinks im not looking, however I am going to wait to catch her when shes not in the gym.

Say your at the benchpress, ask her...."Hey, can you spot me?"
Assuming your lifting much more weight than she can handle.

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gym openings can be easy....

situational openers usually work.... show me how to use this, can you spot me, show me your muscle.... trust test before i let you spot me.... cocky and funny.... lot of nonverbal in gyms, proximity, etc....

some girls are focused... leave them alone... they don't want to be bothered... some girls love flirting in the gym... you can see it if you pay attention to your surroundings... non verbals... oddly, the girls that dress the worst (beautiful girls in baggy shorts) are sometimes most into chatting...

problem is taking numbers/emails...

i never carry a cell phone and who carries a pen in a gym ffs?

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I agree with NaCl. gym pick-up is annoying as fuck. Gym AMOGing though is beautiful.

One day I was at the gym and I saw this guy chasing this one female down. He followed her around the gym and kept making off-color remarks and you could tell she was annoyed. So I walked up and said "Baby is he bothering you. Hey guy...can't you see my girlfriend is trying to exercise." He huffed and walked away She gave me her number and I still lay with her every now and again to this day.

The moral of this story is Gym game makes you look like a chode and leaves you wide open for AMOGing. and if you get rejected at the Gym there is nowhere you can run to. If you just leave you look like a chump and if you stay there you're "that guy that got rejected." Eye contact body language. If she's interested she'll make herself wide open for you after she's finished exercising.

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I have to disagree with NaCl a little bit. I think the real trick is to figure out which girls are there to workout and which ones are there for attention and to pickup. A lot of girls get all fixed up and sexy to do to the gym, just to charge their egos and feel good about how hot they are; negs and teasing would work well on these girls. Some girls are on the rebound and are going to the gym to get back into shape so they can get a new boyfriend, these girls just need attention and validation, these are the most open to conversation. The only way to tell the difference is by their actions. A girl who is focused on her workout will not be looking around or making eye contact. A girl who is there for guys, will put herself in the middle of them and will be looking around and making eye contact a lot more.

The only problem with the gym is that it brings out the most basic instincts in men, therefore you are basically dealing with competing cavemen and will most likely revert yourself. This is the chodiness that was mentioned. If you can control yourself, you should do fine, just don't get caught up in the SPAM.

The gym is a great place for pick-up!

There are two ways I've tried that have been met with good responses.

1. If you see a girl on a nautilus machine you can ask her how it works.

1(a). [this happen a lot] If you see a girl on a nautilus machine, but using it incorrectly, you can show her proper form. This also works if she's using dead weights and not lifting properly.

"I'd totally be your personal trainer, but there's already a long line, it might be worth the wait, though."

2. If you have a workout partner (a wing) you guys can have a conversation at the gym and involve the girls around you in the conversation.