There are three types of opportunities. The first is the obvious opportunity, where a girl comes up to you, or her friend does. The next is the subtle opportunity, wherein girls give off signals to show that they like you, or some coincidence occurs, thanks to fate, giving you a great way to break the ice. Finally, we have potential opportunities, which you have to put in some effort to make-work for you, as you have no idea how they will respond, this is normally what you have to overcome to talk to hot girls who will either be with their ugly friends or surrounded by other guys. You need to be creative in this case, if you’ve ever seen the film Switch with Will Smith you’ll know what I’m talking about: The scene where he goes up to the girl surrounded by men, gives her some money for a drink, treating her like a waitress, just so she’ll follow him back to his table to get her away from the other guys and win her attention. Good old Big Will.
Josh