I have read a lot of posts concerning AA. It never seems to fully go away but still wish it would. After looking back at all my blowouts and sets that just went lull, the absolute worst one I had yet went like this.

I was at a club and I saw a 2set HB7 brunette and HB9 blonde. The HB9 was my target so I opened the HB8 as I was walking by on my way to bar.
(they were standing and facing the dance floor at a high top)

Sub-Zero "Hey, I need to get your opinion on something my friend and are arguing over which club is the best to go on Thursdays"
HB9(walked away as if I was not even there)
HB8 "Your fucking ugly, so just leave us alone would ya"
(she said this with 100% conviction)

At this point I was fucking pissed(not hurt but fucking on tilt). I wanted to tell her mother hen BITCH ass the only reason she got 5 seconds of my time is because of her really hot friend. I didn't, I just walked to the bathroom, checked my hair and see if my face was covered in dog shit or something I missed. I looked fine but I couldn't believe she was such a fucking cuntface to me when I didn't even hit on her. Who the fuck did this average whore think she fucking was? Oh well, who gives a fuck. So does anyone else have a bad blowout they can share?

blownouts are your own fault dude.

you just didnt do it with good bodylanguage or with a good voice or whatever your problem was.

game has few to do with looks,

you think Mehow is hot? No.

you think his GF's are? Yes


Mehow , got to say we share styles a bit

Fuck the opinion opener. Honestly, forget all non-situational openers. They are by far the best. The girls have probably heard opinion openers too many times. Not your fault though. Why not just introduce yourself?

As far as my worst blowout, (actually one I administered) I spotted this girl at the other side of a crowded room (leave plenty of space for a bad judgment call), I didn't realize how...mistaken...I was until she was 5 feet in front of me to which I pretended I had been waving over somebody behind her and walked right past her. She saw this too.

[quote=HB8 "Your fucking ugly, so just leave us alone would ya" [/quote]

You: "Yeak, didn't know U had bad breath, Stay away from me too" with a disgusted stay back expression

You: "I knew you were a bitch, just came over to find out"

You: "Bad breath, no wonder no one is talking to you"

You: "Hahahaaaa...what a bitch"; " Hahahaa... bunch of loosers"

You: "Yeah right, you just saw urself in me"

All of the above responses will iether make them just keep walking or make them react very strongly and come back strong. Start C&F here and keep that frame. Don't let a bunch of bitches ruin you nite, at times women would say things to throw you off guard always have a comeback.

I haven't had blowouts as such. I use situational most of the time and they open all the time. On the other hand I wouldn't open as much as the other guys; open anywhere between 3-11 one night. Besides I don't look for approval AT ALL. I say things beacuse they amuse me and flirt from the begining; carry a "I don't give a shit and who the hell are you" attitude. The more hot the girl is the more arrogant, C&F I get.

He's not asking for advice.. He didn't ask for help. He was simply sharing a story on how a set of bitchy girls completely blew him out and was also extending the invite for others to share a funny blowout story such as this. (even though I'd wanna beat her head against the ground haha)

Correct me if I'm wrong but that's the general idea I get from the post.

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I get that. Wanted to bounce off ideas and check what others had as a come back in such situations

That one wasn't directed towards yours really.. more for the previous.. but I really don't know about that.. if girls really have that much attitude then why bother?

I guess if you're looking for a very rare challenge you could try a line like that but a comeback is just allowing these girls to rent space in your head and get a reaction from you. I'm doubting that anything you say will gain a positive reaction from these girls.

I'd just let it roll off your back and get back to work

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Haha.. Ok...
Thats right. You don't expect a positive reaction and C&F works here. As long as they are reacting its good, you have a chance of turning them around. I have had women get into arguments w/ me for 1/2 hr and soon after that grinding on me. Its about triggering emotions and not losing your frame.

Comments, welcomed.

Woah. That is seriously harsh. Clearly something's pretty wrong in their lives to be that anti-social; I would feel sorry for them more than anything.

Once I was out solo and opened a HB6 with something situational, can't remember exactly, and we got into a conversation, but when I was in the middle of saying something she walked off!!! She walked to a bunch of guys on the other side, I think her bf must've been in that group.

Yeah, that was pretty rough bro. I've had some pretty rough similar blowouts as well back in the day. Good body language is the best thing you can have to avoid that IMO. If you act super confident you'll get less girls treating you like shit I've noticed. IMO it's a little intimidating to them. Plus they like confidence.

Sounds like it is bothering you some but don't take it personal though, they may have been hit on dozens of times already or just been in a pissy mood & took it out on you. I've been told similar & I've been told I'm attractive much much more more, so don't put to much into it or take it to heart.

Trigger emotions, yes, but I don't think that's the way to go myself. What I would have said in that situation in all seriousness is......

"I don't know where you are from, but where I am from we have a couple more maners"

& see if she appoligized. If she said fuck off again, you should just try to be non-reactive, smile & say "pleasure to meet you" & walk away like you don't care.

I think those are about the best protections I have come across. It takes a real piece of shit not to feel bad after that or appoligize IMO, & if they don't you don't want to talk to them anyway, so I can live with that ending even if you really want to give it back.

If you called her a name that would just feed the bitch inside & justify what she said IMO & get you no where. Guilt them & if they have half a heart they will feel like shit & appoligize & try to make it up to you.

What's funny is I rarely get shot down like this anymore where as years ago, it happened very often, so I really feel like it is a lot about body langage & confidence.

Recently I did get blown out & since it doesn't happen as much it got away with me a little put me in a foul mood & ruined the rest of my night. What made it wierd at the moment was I saw this girl at the bar the week before when I was talking to a HB-9 & she saw that & made intense eye contact & smiled at me. I couldn't talk at the time so the next time there I went up & talked to her with expectations things would go well & she blew me out.

Thinking about it the next day, I totally had ignored the fact she was with a group including 3 guys & looked like they were having a lot of fun.

I had caught her while I was walking on the way to the bar probably 10 feet away from them at the time & opened. None of it was a good approach, very sloppy so I deserved it. 1 was probably her BF or guy she was working. All kinds of factors at play. Just have to remember that. The same girl that blows you out might have thought you were hot shit the night before. Keep it in mind.

My worst crash and burn was when I was still a young pup. I saw a two set (HB8.5 and HB5) the HB8.5 was my target..
Me:Want to dance?
HB8.5:What would make you think I would want to dance with you?
Me:I wasn't talking to you.
Now I look at the HB5
Me:Want to dance?
HB5:Sure.

Woot one up for me. Sure I didn't get my target but after she made me feel like a complete jackass I turned the tables on her quick. I can honestly say that the HB8.5 made me feel tiny. I couldn't believe just asking someone to dance could end like that. It was a shock needless to say.

For the record this was like 17 years ago and I was still young. Now I might have replied like this.
Me:Want to dance?
HB8.5:What would make you think I would want to dance with you?
Me:The fact that you are sitting here all alone. Come on it will be fun.

If her responce was bad I might say..
Me:I can see why you are alone. See ya.

The other week my wing was standing at the bar and he spoke to some girl, then she asked him to buy her a drink, he said "i don't know if you're hot enough" and she full on slapped him in the face lol. Me, him and just about every guy at the bar burst out laughing.


As for me it was probably on 1 of my first nights out, 1 of my wings had JUST opened this set and got blown out, then he came back and told me to go open them, I walked up "hey guys what's your favourite cheese?" they turn around giving me the coldest look you've ever seen and say something along the lines of "what the fuck do you take us for, are you and your buddies in some kind of competition or something, just piss off back over to them." felt about an inch tall lol, laughed about it 2 minutes later though.

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Gander was correct, I only wanted replys that had blowout stories involving you getting blown out.