Dear capitalist,
I've learned my game from befriending guys and girls who were naturally good at seducing, or in the case of online I learned it myself, so forgive me if I don't talk about sets and yada yada when I comment on this.
From what I can make up out of the things you say, you mean you want to start a conversation with a delivery girl who gives you a package at the door while that delivery usually only takes 40 seconds? And your guess is that you will need to have the same girl delivering stuff to your house several times, right?
Let me ask you something…why?
Why are you letting HER fancy "estimated delivery time" ruin YOUR chances? One of the things I always did with delivery girls in the past (although in my city, 90% of the delivery people are male..it sucks really) is:
- Open the door, ask her how she's doing and then "are you okay? Caus' you look like you only slept an hour last night. Do I even wanna KNOW why?" > playfully teasing her for being a nympho in an indirect way, sure to get a laugh
- Then ask her "so what do you have for me today? You're not a postal worker gone postal on all of us are you? Because you're cute, but I don't wanna go out with a bang!" > accusing her of being a post office psycho (there have been a number of employees who killed people in the post office), complimenting her indirectly and the wordplay of going out with a bang lets her know you're accusing her of giving her a bomb, but also that SHE is the bomb (it's hinting at wanting to take her out if she's not a psycho, she'll get it)
And guess what? You two have been talking for more than 40 seconds dude, and as long as you make the conversation FUN, build the attraction and use everything you can think off when it comes to packages, postal workers, Anthrax, bombs and other mail problems..you'll do just fine! Btw, why would you need multiple times to get her contact info?
If you'd ask her name, introduce yourself, maybe ask her if she delivers there because she's from there (so you'll know where she lives), and then say "I don't want to distract from you work any longer, so you know what? Why don't you give me your number, because we can then continue this fun conversation tomorrow evening."
There you go, it never takes me more than one occasion to get any woman's contact info because I play my cards right. You can easily do that too if you forget about limiting beliefs like time frames or needing to see women several times (BECAUSE of that time frame).
Does that help?
