Here is my situation;
My friend (an ex) was going to setup me and my buddy up with her to friend for sake of argument, im suppose to be setup wiht Y(HB7) and my other buddy is suppose to be setup wiht Z (HB8).
Now lets rewind it to a 2 weeks before...
It was another firends bday I went to a party, I think my game was on fire, I was owning the party our party was the loudest in the club. I drift around and wander away form my party then i see my ex she was at another party in the club, she introduced me to Y, we danced brefily then i wanderd off again ( i was concentrating on gaming another girl from the orignal party)
So the next day, I get a friend request from "Z" on facebook she was talking about how it was nice to meet me in party ( whihc i kinda dont, i was done gaming and just wanted to get hammer). We started taking on facebok but only on wall.
Next day my ex tells me that girl never response to ppl on Facebook and thats an IOI.
So my ex setsup a meeting for all of us, but wants Z to be wiht my buddy, and Y to be wiht me. That night we went skating ( alot of KINO there, pretending not to knwo how to skate hahah i use to play hockey in elementary school ), Dinner was good, I could see DDB in Z, i just didnt built as much rapport as usualy whihc im dissapointed on. I #closed np at the end

the thing is my buddy out AMOGged me, wiht rapport, he is good friends wiht Y and my ex so he has social proof there. Im thinking they are obv siding wiht him cause that was the orginal plan too. He agreed to act a wing that night we all went out ( which he will never be again).

I asked Z if she wanted to go shopping wiht me she said she was going to study wiht my buddy and Y ( even tho Y goes to another program and me and buddy are in same school, Z is taking same program but diff school)..... study much? errr I know my buddy i know when he is trying to make moves. She said would go to teh mall wiht me after the study group but i coudlnt i have work, so i asked for rain check..she agreed ( no exact date).
Now i confronted my buddy if he is trying to game her ( natural game), admitted even tho it took him I while.

I want to thank people for reading this far if they did.
But my question now is "Bros before Hoes". should i flake and put my focus else where or she it try to battle it out.

chill man they are just girls.. there are plenty more out there.

lol, dont worry zhukaching
i know there alot of fish in the sea, I just feel a bit betrayed, and experienced having a bad wingman that goes for the same target.

Ps'' just realize I might of put this on wrong section, so if I mod were to put this thread in the right place... its all good

Its all fair game....unless he talked shit about you to the girls then thats a different story....be happy for your friend and if he is your true friend he will return the favor.....by showing your pissed about the fact all its going to do is make you an afc......and I hear you good wings are hard to come by these days......alot of pua's by me are fucking LAME.....just got to step your game up so you can't lose

Didnt vote. Not enough buttons as usual. =P

Me and my friends have a pretty good system. Call the set before you start. Start gaming. Meet halfway, discuss. If you agree to switch around (we often do, its best to go with the natural flow of course) then switch, otherwise the original rules apply. Never game directly against the wishes of one of your friends, of course using the original call on the set as to whos wishes are superior. If difficult situations arise, use common sense and be diplomatic and remember always that you are friends and there is no point getting riled up over a girl.

So you guys started up, unfortunately the girls called the set for you, so stick with that. Z is his girl for gaming purposes, but you can always tell him you like her and what not, and if he values that or gets bored with her or both, then hopefully he will step down for you. Otherwise, really, dont sweat it and never butt heads, a good PUA will always be ready to wing well for his wing.

hmm thnx for the the advice guys, I'd decided to concentrate on another hb, and decided i will act passive wiht Z unless the blatant IOI change my mind lol