Found a girl on FB, don't know her but she's the ex of the guy who's dating my ex. So there's some fun irony. She's a HB7. Found out through a mutual friend that she works in a hot deli. Now, my friend (girl) has offered to introduce me to her but I'm weighing my options first.

Should I go along and get introduced? Or should I attempt to approach her myself, do some chatter about needing something to do with the deli and work from there. Without mentioning that I know her? Or what?

I'd go with the mutual friend so you can lead the conversation into her DHVing you. If you think you're better off alone though go for that, it's more confident and alpha.

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Go in there and order something when she is there.....and strike up a convo with her.....use as an opener......Did you know subway calls the people who make there sandwhichs, sandwhich artist.....do you consider yourself a sandwhich artist.....then say thats a fancy title.....you then take that and say I wish my job gave me a fancy title like that....then DHV where you work and stuff.....but use the basics of subway calls there employees sandwhich artist...play around with the opener.....its plan/ simple and non-threating.....then multi-thread into some dhv story......

Why not meet her first (without your friend knowing)...

Then have your friend introduce y'all...

That way you have something to say the second time around too... and you have the mutual friend... I think I would use that to your advantage.

--Qb

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