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PostPosted: Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:20 pm 
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These should be mainly for a girl you spot and she is about to get in her car or something and you know you don't have time for an inderect approach.
I also realized that most naturals use nothing but direct approaches and are successful, they rely strictly on confidence.
Would this be a good one? "Hello I noticed you walking by and thought to myself you're a beautiful women and I'd like to know what steps I need to take so I can get to know you"


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 24, 2009 11:47 pm 
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The easiest and most natual of them has to be.

"Hi. So I was wondering if you'd like to join me for a coffee. It's just one drink amd I'd like to get to know you. Hey no commitment, it's only a drink and if you find don't want to hang around, then you can leave."


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 25, 2009 12:08 am 
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i'm not sure i see the difference between direct and indirect approach...
direct approach would be: "hey lets meet now"
indirect approach would be: "hey what do you think of the weather today, it's great isnt it?" or "hey i need an opinion on something" types...
is that right?


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 25, 2009 1:06 am 
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i'm not sure i see the difference between direct and indirect approach...
direct approach would be: "hey lets meet now"
indirect approach would be: "hey what do you think of the weather today, it's great isnt it?" or "hey i need an opinion on something" types...
is that right?
pretty much yes - direct is when you show interest in her, that you would like to meet and indirect is like you just talking with her and don't have interest to meet up


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 25, 2009 2:53 am 
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i use only direct game. it's the only thing that i'm comfortable with because i'm congruent with it. i do a few approaches every day during day game and not one girl was offended by it. all the girls i approach are flattered, smile or giggle, and some even blush.
but anyway, what i do is i walk past her, then turnaround like i just noticed something. then i say something along the lines

"oh hey, what's up, this is random but i thought u had the coolest sense of style"
she'll respond with wow thanks, you're sweet. then you can throw in a neg after that
or i also use

"oh hey, what's up, i couldnt help but notice that you have some gorgeous eyes/smile and i wanted to come over and say hi."

when i say this to girls it just makes their day. no, scratch that, it makes their decade. girls love the attention


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 6:58 am 
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my favorites are
"hey.. i dont usually do this but.... you looked cute so i had to say hi"
or
"hey.. i saw you from over there and you looked kinda cute so i thought id say hi"
or
"excuse me.. i dont want to be the guy who tries to pick u up at the mall carpark but...ah i guess i gotta be that guy"

all of these must be said with solid frame and friendly tone ,not reaction seeking, just move to "so what are you doing today"


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 7:24 am 
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Sup guys, Ive been out sarging 4 nights a week just trying stuff out and so far I found my favorite opener. When the target walks past you say "Who do you think you are...... Walking by... and not even saying hi" Then drop a very light neg and begin the game.Ding Ding round 1. You guys should try it out and see how it works for you.. Oh, be in a very playful CF frame. Let me know. Peace


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 5:27 am 
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I don't know about the whole girl gettin into a car...seems a little creepish to me...but if you can then I'll give you props!!

The best opener I have ever used is deffinately the body language opener! If you're good at reading body language, then you should be able to quickly spot something about her body language and open her/them!

I.E.: If her arms are crossed, tell her that she's never gonna have fun if she doesn't loosen up!

This requires a little improv...every situation is different.

-Crain Diesel


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