Engulfed in a sea of women.



How often do you find yourself in this predicament? Always ?. . . Sometimes?.. Never?

Why do you suppose the cost of living in California' s so damn expensive. Answer: The Real Estate Agent’s mantra: “Location, Location, Location.”
People pay huge amounts of money for the "location" of their homes.

Many things come into play when finding a home, you want:

-Homes with a View
-Center of the Block
-Conforming Areas


Like homes, the location of where you Stand is no different. You want to "post up"( Stand in one area for a period of time ) in a spot where logistically, everything is convenient for you. You want:

-A spot with a good view
-Center of the crowd ( this will make it easy for women to take notice of you while at the same time easier for you to strike up a conversation without having to go out of your way for them.)
People tend to gravitate toward others who share similar interests and values.


Why make it hard when you can make it easier for yourself to meet women. (or men, whichever you prefer)

When in a venue, it’s best to stand:

-Next to women you find desirable- As obvious as this sounds I see men standing in horrible locations all the time: such as by them selves next to fat women. ( not that fat women are undesirable . . . just not my cup of tea.)

-The women’s restroom: This is a very good spot, however . . . Only stand here if you have good reason.
Example: The bar is close to the women’s restroom, or your group of friends just happen to strike up a conversation near the restroom. (If in anyway it looks like your going out of your way to be in places you shouldn’t, it’ll look suspicious . . . and trust me, you don’t want that. )

-The bar: This is also a good spot to meet women. However, always wait till after women have drank their shot or gotten their drink. The last thing you want to do is get in the flow of talking to a girl when all of a sudden it's put to a halt because she “ has to do a shot with the girls.”

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As with all my advice, it's 100% experience. My goal is to make pickup as easy and uncomplicated as possible while achieving maximum consistent results.

CharismaArt's Juggler Instructor Timmy D's Blog:

Beme123.wordpress.com

That is most probably the worst location to be at to pick up girls. Yes there will be girls there, but the womens restroom acts like a security "blanket" for girls as it allows them to get away for a couple of minutes from mostly guys that have been trying to hit on them.
A good/smart PUA would get involved with the girls taking a shot. Or better yet not let such a thing happen as he was able to grab their attention and take their minds off from taking that shot.

You are right, women do use the restroom as an area to get away from men. However, in these circumstances, I casually strike up a conversation using an in the moment opener such as, " Wow that's a long line for the woman's restroom, I love being a guy. " ( and riff off her reaction )

If you come in nonchalant, with normal conversation, you won't come across as one of the creepy and desperate guys she's trying to avoid.

If what you suggest is actually working for you, than by all means go ahead.

Personally, I don't like to work that hard. If I see a group of girls preparing to take a shot, I'll avoid going through the trouble of getting the girl's attention before they take it, convincing them to wait for the bartender to eventually get me a shot . . .. it's just too much work.

I prefer to cut-out unnecessary distractions by biding my time and opening when the girl's social obligation to her friends has passed.
This reduces the potential distractions once our conversation has begun.

As with all my advice, it's 100% experience based from years of going out 5 days a week. My goal is to make pickup as easy and uncomplicated as possible while achieving maximum consistent results.

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As with all my advice, it's 100% experience. My goal is to make pickup as easy and uncomplicated as possible while achieving maximum consistent results.

CharismaArt's Juggler Instructor Timmy D's Blog:

Beme123.wordpress.com

I hit on girls all the time near the restroom, its a great spot. Especially if you are in some small, packed club, and there is a cue, as is often the case here in Copenhagen. Hell, Ive gotten girls to SHARE the bathroom with me (im seriously not kidding, I actually did this last night with two chicks come to think of it.. hahaha i almost forgot about that one!) from time to time.

Now if its a cleaner, more sterile environment, you are going to have a harder time there.

lol. Bathroom Pulls . . . those are fun. I don't do them anymore, however, it's good to have the experience. Client's ask me how do pull it off all the time, so the experience comes in handy

Anyway, glad you are one more person, making good use of the bathroom.

Excited to hear more of your stories Daggaz[/quote]

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As with all my advice, it's 100% experience. My goal is to make pickup as easy and uncomplicated as possible while achieving maximum consistent results.

CharismaArt's Juggler Instructor Timmy D's Blog:

Beme123.wordpress.com

True.

I am all for less work as well. But I was more thinking along the lines of having fun and just being sociable more than picking up the girl(s). Because for me at least about half the time when I am talking to a girl I just meet I just want to have fun and socialize and not focus on picking her up. So I when I see girls taking shots or something I am bound to join in on the fun. As I really don't want to focus on all of that PUA stuff all the time when I am talking to girls.

Amen, my brother! This plays so hard into innergame as well... If you are totally focused on scoring the girl, you are going to get annoyed by distractions (and I mean come on, its a fucking bar full of drunk people!) and you are going to miss out on a lot of fun, which equates to missed opportunities and a vibe that isnt nearly as "I AM the party!" as it could be. Which means you arent scoring as many girls!

I always focus on having fun first, girls second. If a girl is a pain in the ass, or boring, or actually full of negative vibes and I cant cheer her up, then I will certainly walk away, regardless if she is a HB8 or higher. Besides, my best nights with girls always happen when I am having the most fun, not the other way around.