Hey,

Anybody with experience in this area, HELP ME OUT!!!

This girl and I use to be close, this was before i got into learning game.
There was real fucking chemistry in hindsight, would have been so fucking easy if i had had some balls!!

Anyway, a year or more ago we stopped talking for various reasons, we have sort of put aside our differences via text message.

We have the same social circles, the next time we are in the same situation how should i play it???

Check out the poll below or leave other opinion/ options.

Thanks.

i personally figure u gotta approach it in a kind of way to quickly rebuild that rapport then test her for IOI's after a little conversation and sitting down, the styles hand test, the mystery hand knee test, and eyecontact/kino, if u get the 3 iois, hold her hand she how she responds, if well, continue and kiss close with styles kiss close if ur shy.

this should me easy game if she already knows u, u done need an opener, and u dont need rapport, u just need to freshed up the rapport in her head and close.

As long as you were not in the LJBF zone, go for it. Treat her as you would any other HB. The advantage (as long as you are not in the LJBF zone) is that you already have some insight into what this HB likes/feels. Also, I think it might be a little easier to escalate if she is still comfortable with you.

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Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat. - Oscar Wilde

Hmm.. I actually had kind of this situation with a girl, first friends and then not. Some time after that she ended up being both my best friend and girlfriend
Sadly, I didn't know about the game, so I couldn't analyze it really.. But what I did was that I was seriously dismissive towards her (actually, at first, I really hated her ) but with time got closer and closer with her. Played it slowly and solid in other words, never showing any sign of neediness.
I think it's something like that it should be played, but can't really remember what I did

Well, what I mostly wanted to say with the post is that it is fully possible and not lost at all.

Ha! I am in this situation and going to game the girl this friday at an ex-fuck buddies party. Lets call her HB Spillage.

This girl used to hate me!
1. Because the first time I met her I drunkenly spilt my drink all over here.
2. Because the second time I met her I spilt her drink all over here.
3. Because I broke it off with my Fuck buddy and she told all her friends I was an Ass.

Anyway. Friends again with the Fuck buddy and when I saw Spillage out on town one night (I had mad social proof and I believe I am a good dancer, so people kinda gravitated towards me) she gave me a dirty look. I said something along the lines of 'Heyyyy look who it is! Its my own worst enemy!'
She laughed and I followed up with something along the lines of 'You know what? Your like Lex Luthor. And Im superman. Your my arch-nemesis!'
She was laughing some more now and eventually we just went into this little C&F thing about me and her being worst enemies hellbent on the destruction of one another. I could've K-closed (despite her best friend being my ex-fuck buddy) except i decided to leave it for another time.

I am hoping that time is this weekend.
Hope my story has helped a little. Perhaps given hope?

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