AA is something i sometimes have with me and sometimes dont. Reasons i don't approach sometimes is because number 1. Hands down is that im afraid/scared, knowing what to say when i approach her, talking about stuff that would absolutely bore her to death, and not be umm *good looking*, for a lack of better words. I guess all this comes from thinking too much. People like me are just afraid of the outcome and therefore hold back on approaching

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Human beings, as a species fear what we don't yet understand. For me the feeling is like the first time I ever got on stage to perform (guitar), you have no idea what's going to happen, and because of this your mind plays out the worst case scenarios over and over and over again in your head therefore detering you from even going through with it. Personally since then I have done allot more gigs and now I don't get the stage anxiety (unless it's a fairly big gig, or somewhere I have never played at before......which you could compare to approaching models or something). These things take time, I still have AA but it's getting better, being forced into approaching by a coach or something is all very well and good but ultimately you have to do it for yourself and not someone else, otherwise it becomes a chore. The more approachs that you do (just like me with playing guitar on stage) the more the anxiety goes away.

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"My toughest opponent is always myself"
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Usually when im afraid of approaching a girl its usually at a school dance or just a regular dance,etc. Since i would find it father easy to go up and ask her myself, i still do find it difficult to walk over in her direction. I have went up and asked a girl to dance before but i still get afraid to approach other girls when in that same situation.

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