I used to get this shit confused too until i started watching some of David Wygant. He has a different approach to pu than the conventional mystery method. It doesnt really matter tho bc he explains that what it means to be needy. So I would look into his method, it sounds more suitable to your situation, his day game is real good, and much more natural. This will set you apart from the typical frat fags. just look him up on youtube.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDNyMqGT ... re=related
hope this helps