i met this girl who is workin at the same place with me..but different department..i never talk to her before..but we made eye contact once..she smiled at me and i smiled back at her..this happened abt 2weeks ago..but during this 2 weeks i've been noticing her every single day..i realised that ocassionally she try to look at me from her department..and ofcause i did the same thing to her..so we made long distance eye contacts for this 14days..any problems?

but now i want apporach her myself..so what should i do?
i think i can only do it after she going back to work from the washroom and we accidentally meet..
how should i open her?
what should i do?
what should i say?

ps;
she's not those party-girls type..
she's quiet and shy type of girl.
her father and my mother work in the same place too! (but different department)

so any prof PUA can help me?
thanks alot!
any comments are welcome!

Try not to think to much about it her. I found that the more a like a girl the more I make an ass of myself. Assume she is interested and the next time you see her just start talking to her about anything. I like to start out with hi. Yes openers do work, but the most important part isnt the opening its the dialogue that follows.

Be bold, be confident, and have fun with it. If you dont get any where with her remember that there are 3 billion other women in the world.

Hope that helps!

Well,,, think...

Ima point out this man,

Work your inner game, your beliefs, really, do so.

By reading your post, I can tell it goes beyond outer game, I was reading the first chapters of Magic Bullets (RECOMMENDED!) yesterday, and It said something very true, If you have the FUNDAMENTALS covered, then any method can work for you, some slightly better than others, but will work.

So, if your FUNDAMENTALS are not covered, then any type of thing you do, probably won't work

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oh thanks alot..

what you mean FUNDAMENTALS?
i got the game with me..which chapter i need to cover?
whats magic bullet?

im really new..sorry and thanks for the help..

Fundamentals are:

Humor

Confidence

Social Intuition

Then the attributes that women are drawn to:

- Challenging
- Confident
- Congruence
- Unpredictable

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Hey slim,

Here's the thing (no offence intended) your not an ace at this, so if you go thinking too much on how to approch her or what to say or trying to follow fundermentals which you may not have ever thought about is going to be your down fall. reading dating books and these forums are a great way to get tips and thing to remember but when you start trying to apply them all is not going to work. let me give you the best tip and this is the foundation (i dont care what others say) of picking up women, BE YOURSELF! theres just certian things you can do which will improve ur chances for example the way you walk - do you walk up straight like you have the greatest life in the world or do you slouch like you have the worlds problems on your shoulders. Women love fun, interesting guys who are in charge of thier wonderful interesting lives they live. Be confident, be bold and be incharge! go and talk to her when ever YOU want to. You are in charge here, so if its 3 pm and you wanna go talk to her go do it. theres no need for an opening becuse you two have been eyeing each other for two weeks.go introduce yourself and then the conversation come NATRALY dont put pressure on yourself by thinking what should i say to her - just talk to her as if you tow have been friends for ages (just keep the conversation light, short and sweet).

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thanks all
chilly, thanks..its kinda true...

but..what u guys think i should start with? need some ideas...
thanks alot

Don't just be yourself, be your BEST SELF.

It is a book

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