I was out with a 2 girls (no other male to try to ruin my game .. everything was going wonderful!! everything! .. they were laughing more than they were talking.. i was role playing all the time like we had a relationship.. they laughed their asses off.. i thought it was the sarge of my life.. i kiss closed with both (!!!!) and my primary target gave me her msn and told me to go in and talk to her... ok i said very happy..


After i went home i went to speak her in the msn.. she was as cold as hell ..... she was typing haha and stuff but she was sooo unreachable... her last words were.. im bored of you.. bye bye..


What the fuck? my amazing well played game was ruined in front of my eyes... I couldnt believe it...lol
I was sure i was the best guy she had ever seen in her life and i found out that she was bored (!!!!!!!!!!) of me...

What happened?? was this a test like the one girls like? or was it a real reaction?? it seemed quite real to me at least....

Was just reading your posting man, i think i have the solution.

The part that stands out is where you say"After you went home from the club you went onto msn to talk with her ". If you have just been out with a girl, and you either call her or email her straight away, it communicates two things;

1. That your obviously very into her/too into her at an early stage
2. That your needy, and have nothing else to do.

Basically in order to maintain/build attraction with a hot girl who has guys falling like paratroppers at her feet, you must demonstrate firstly that you are a strong minded, disciplined guy who is in control of himself, and every interaction he has with everyone. And secondly that you have options and don't get too hung up on 1 chick.

It doesn't matter if you have the game when your with a girl i.e. teasing, flirting, e.t.c. if you overcrowd them too much at some stage they are gonna hit the road.

Even if it was her saying to you msn me when i get in, don't do it, shes just testing to see if your like all the other guys who fall at her feet.

So next time your in that situation don't msn her, call her, communicate with her for 3 days, unless she does it herself. This will give her the mindset that your not just a funny, cool guy to hang with, but your in demand and you have the discipline to keep her waiting, very powerfull!!

Remember the less easy something is to get, the more people want it.

Hope this helps!

How long were you talking to her before you kissed her?

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I tottaly agree with nikthegreek u fucked ur game by doing that thats why every time i get a phone number o a mail i apply the two day rule specially when i get n phone numers,, u should wait two days to talk to her so u wont be seen as a needy chump nor as a stalking basterd, when u get a e mail u should wait a day until u add her in msn

and remember mate, we are master seducers beacuse w e learn from our mistakes

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Nik's right on. And when you IM you need to be sure to continue to come across as confident, arrongant bastard you were in person. Chicks dig mystery, and want what they can't have. Sounds like you made yourself too easy to get at the end.

The masters have said it all!
You made yourself too easy to get. Next time have control over your emotions and the urge to be nice!