I met a girl on POF then added her on facebook a week ago. We have chatted abit but nothing has really come up I suggested we go for a few drinks sometime but I got no reply. How do I get her attention she said she wants to talk over the phone first before she meets someone in the flesh so I asked for her number but she did not respond. Where do I go from here I dont want to seem too needy I already e-mailed her and she replied but still have not got her number or arranged to meet should I just say "how about we go for a few drinks sometime"?? How should I play it, cheers

So, she hasn't given you her number or taken you up on your offer of drinks.

She is not interested.

As simple as that.

Move on, game other women.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

yeah but I still want to give it a shot is there anyway around it to make her interested, im just out of ideas right now

1 Your biggest problem is your asking, if you ask she can say no.

2 Every women on the planet wants to get with you understand that. Your trying to sell yourself DON'T sell your date.

3 With her number. I say I can't get to my computer for the next week cause I am super busy(DHV) send me your number though(I'm not asking) maybe I will call you(make her work for it). Its alot diffrent then can I get your number.

Drinks are lame anyways, seriosuly take her somewhere fun. How about a glow in the dark mini golf place or go karts so shit she never goes.

Thanks for the replys, the thing thats frustrating me and my mates is that im not ugly and im fun to be around, I make the whole room laugh when I go out but when it comes to women I just get flaked on or no response, I am trying not to be the nice guy its just so bloody frustrating lol

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Don't try to be something other than yourself. You'll fail. Poorly.

Instead, check the behaviour which leads to women holding out on you. Fix those issues and you'll be fine.

Trying to be someone that you're not is a major turn-off for women. And they can spot it very quickly what is real and what is contrived.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

she might not be willing to give you her number or meet up with you because a lot of women are creeped out/scared about meeting guys over free dating sites. It doesn't mean she's not interested, but you'll have to be patient. I know like 6 of these types... usually after like 3-4 months of talking on and off there willing to fork over there number or hang out one day. (YES 3-4 months) Don't be needy and don't treat them like a women your interested in. Just try to be their friend until they are comfy enough... if you try to game them and show interest it just won't work. they'll feel creeped out. It's all you can do =/

After your friends and she's comfy with you, when you actually hang out, then you can escalate kino. being friend zoned isn't bad so long as you give the girl breaks of contact.

lol wtf

i thought about e-mailsing her or facebook chat her because she is rarely online "your harder to get hold of that a pork chop at a jewish party"
what do you guys think????
cheers

anyone think the line above is good or would she just think im crazy??
cheers

I don't think any woman would be flattered to be compared to pig meat at a Jewish celebration.

I may be wrong.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

I thought that line was hilarious, but then again im a dude so I dont know. Ill try using it a few times and let you know how it turns out.

I would just continue conversations until she is comfortable enough to give you her number, but ask for it like Faust said, not just directly.