Okay, so I want to try to reconnect with this girl that I used to have a huge crush on in middle school. (Senior in HS now). Anyway I havent seen her since she left my school mid 6th grade, but fate somehow brought us back together. I saw her a few weeks ago at my school,still beautiful as ever, she goes to a different hs but her mom has been my math teacher for the past 3 years, so she was visiting or w.e, (her mom really likes me btw, always a plus ), and I really wanted to ask her out, but since her mom was in the room watching us plus my friends were nudging me to get going I just ended up with saying "It's been nice seeing you, see you around sometime" and left.

As soon as that happened I immediately regretted it. Now I've been wanting to reconnect with her again and possibly ask her out, but she seems to never be online, so I want to send her a msg via pm on facebook, its just that I honestly don't know what to say. Do I just ask her to dinner saying I want to catch up, or should I small talk with her for a bit? I've been reading here for a while and have learned plenty of things when it comes to talking about women, but I just cant figure out what to do here =\. Anyway hopefully someone here can help me!

Well, you can initiate the conversation

Send her a message. Say hello and ask her how's she doing.

If you know her personally, normal openers will work fine.

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