Alright so I met this chick at a party and we jived pretty good. She told me about how she just got out of a relationship where her BF cheated on her and that she was just looking for friends(I wasn't in the community then so I acted like an AFC). She found me on facebook, we chatted idly and when I tried to get her to hang out she gave me the "im sick" excuse. I talked to her a bit later but nothing really came out of it. This was a few months ago. Since then she has poked me a few times and eventually sent me the following.

HB: POKE! POKE!Usually, I just press the "poke" back button, lol. You have been poked

Me: You may have started this poke war but I intent to finish it!

HB: The war is over when I say is over

Me: Congrats on the new job (this is about 2 weeks after the prior msg, found out through a status update she just got a job)

HB: Thanks! I'm an education aide at the Kroc Center and also fill in for the librarian when she is absent.


HB(an hour later):Btw, do you know how to play pool? I want to learn how to play and am asking friends if they have a pool table or can give me some pointers. Anyways, take care.

I don't know how to play pool and am certain that telling her I do or can isn't the right course of action. What do you think I should say in response to peak her attraction without seeming like I am trying too hard. I want to meet her, and from the sounds of it she wants to meet me but doesn't want to seem like thats what she's after(indirect).

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Since you were acting like a AFC around her you may not even be on her radar n have been LJBF, so if I were you i'd get in good with here then start gaming one of her friends as chances are if shes hot her friends will be too. Also if your acting differently (PUA not AFC) around her friends this could possibly peak her interest in you. Goodluck

Why not?

Just tell her that No, I play real games.

Also, don't assume so much about her. If a girl wants to meet you, she will say so.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

She wants the biggest, meanest, thickest cock she can find and she wants it YESTERDAY. Most girls love to give the impression they're deeply hurt and lost respect for all men when this shit happens. Please, post-breakup is THE time for her to go out and do something she'll regret. I truly believe this, and that the girls that dont either dont have the balls or dont have the opportunity. She might not have even thought you were interested if what you said was true and moved on. After the hook up she saw you as a more reliable long-term.

And a side note: Learn to play pool! There's pool tables in EVERY bar. It's a great skill to pick up and can attract some attention your way just being able to play good and kick peoples ass. And....it's fun

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A Tru nigga

Pool is not what shes about, so don't worry wether you can play or not.

Playing pool is simply the excuse she using to meet you.
You my friend, are getting picked up!!

organise to meet up for a game of pool, keep the txting, private messages to a minimum before you actually see her, and go from there

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