Ok so my life I kinda busy at the moment and I'm not getting out as often as I would like! When I do go out I'm more just trying to enjoy myself as it's not often me and my mates get to hit the town!

I started using dating sites to see what the fuss was about! I'm fairly AFC and I set out my profile carefully but not actually trying to be a PUA!

I've had a really good level of response and actually a lot of girls message me first! I have been quite selective about who I message and what I write! The strange thing is, I have a much higher success rate the more attractive the girl is! I'm not complaining like! If you applied logic then you would thing that the HB7's would be more interested!

My level of success = an actual meet up with girls where we kissed or had sex and had a second or third date.


I can post my profile if anyone wants to see it! Be warned as it may come across as afc!

I don't know if it makes a difference but I tend to number close quite quickly! The feedback I get from 90% of the girls is that I come across as genuine and not trying to bullshit them. Which is true, I make sure to never lie because girls sense it a mile off!

I don't know what I have done right, maybe I've just been lucky but if your not having success, try being not too cocky but more interesting as a person!

I forgot to add that I have been successful with about 6 girls in 5 months! I have messaged countless others but the conversation either died, she was a bitch, I got bored ect.

3 of the 6, actually traveled to me! One from Scotland, England and one is coming up next week from Ireland. The others were local!

PM the link or post it up man

I fail at links! When I try to copy the URL for my profile it just gives me that crap

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/alross1212

This link works

bitches love emoticons.




I feel like i'm turning into a spelling natzi on here when looking at people's profiles, but it's "lose", not "loose".

Similarly, it's "Nazi", not "Natzi". Unless, of course, you're referring to Inglorious Basterds, which was a great movie.



There's an emoticon for you.

Lol at natzi

Anyway, being just a little bit different than the hordes of others accompanied with being real, not some made up character and ... well... your pics, you're good looking.

OP: I have a 92% match with you. Let's do this.

See, I told you I had success! Totally going to F close this!

On a similar note, the girl from Ireland has booked her tickets arrives on Monday, leaves on Tuesday! I'm not sure I'll F close this one as I like her and I want to see where it could lead! Then again, if the opportunity presents itself....

Getting a girl to fly from another country to meet you for the first time is impressive - I've never tried that before. They are paying for their own tickets?
Do you mind posting their profiles or pics of them? I promise we won't troll them

I'm from northern Ireland so this one is just via train. Still another country though! Yea I've never paid but I will obviously shout dinner at the very least to say thanks! Haha, I'll not post the profiles as I know what you guys would do

I'd take the third picture out.

Too much of a flash. Ruined it. Replace it with a normal one.

Good, clean and simple profile. Well done.

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