I recently had somewhat of a breakthrough concerning online sarging. I'm currently hooking up with a couple of girls, but I could use one more so I'm back to sarging online as I've been somewhat "busy" otherwise. Anyways, in the second e-mail, after you've sent your opener (I've posted info on great openers), give the following response (say the girls name is Allie):
Follow it up with a great DHV story about how "ridiculous your week has been" or something like that. I've field tested this three times so far, and each time its gotten a great response, and has shifted the girls into more of a comfort zone. You are beyond the "what do you like to do for fun?" bullshit questions and being playful. It really breaks the tension if you follow it with a funny DHV story. For instance, I used it for a girl named Bree (called her "B"). Here's the response:
Rock it out, gentlemen.

-Esperanto