I've found a good technique to use with girls online or through text that leads to a first date. It works well when they are useless at having an initial conversation and its starting to dry up, i.e. they keep asking 'hows ur weekend' 'got anything planned for the week' (I hate these question, wtf do they care and I dont think this is a hint for asking them straight out if its very early on).

There's two ways to play it; the simple version

'Think of 10 questions. Write them down or something. We'll do them one at a time, and by the end of it we can see what we think of each other. Right I'll go first. What are your five favourite films (and thats not five questions!) x'

or the scores version

Think of 10 questions. Write them down or something. We'll do them one at a time. Rate each answer between 1 and 10. Make a secret total pass score. If the other person passes at the end of the questions you have to go on a date with them.

Right I'll go first..... QUESTION'


The question game makes it alot funner and you can easily open up a girl. Both the simple way and the secret score makes the girl feel she has to impress you. Where as in reverse, she might feel she has some power, but if she is texting you 'hows ur weekend' shes already into you but wants to get to know you a bit before meeting up. The scores simply make it more of a game.

As with the questions you can make them as fun, deep or sexual as you like (possibly a mix). When responding comment on what she said but don't explicitly give your answer, because you can save that for the date. Of course the last question your gunna ask her out (if you're still into her), if she says yes, ask her for the last question, and you'll answer it on the date.

You can set the number of questions depending on how well you know the girl already or how far in the future you want to go on the date.

So far I've got good response, I'm still trialling it and havnt got the last question! Even if it doesnt always work its still quite a fun way to flirt. I'll keep you updated.

Peace out.