It seems like online gaming is a huge waste of time when you get no replies. I usually do my thing on bbm but it's a big waste of time when all that ever happens for me is that I'll have my messages read and never returned. I would rather be rejected than ignored and getting all these lack of responses and boring convos make me reluctant to even bother trying again.

I've tried openers as simple as hi how are you which never ever gets a response. Makes sense since I'm sure this is the most typical way to open. I've tried to make it more personal by throwing in hun and gorgeous at the end with similar results. My only way of getting responses is to respond to a broadcast and get lucky or to make some type of joke. After that initial lol I I usually try to avoid questions and try to continue being funny.

My convos as a result usually get no where. Should I be feeding this chicks compliments cause that seems to go a long way. I just don't like to compliment too much but not doing that hasn't had any good result. I've had minimal success getting maybe 2 girls to talk back to me and show attraction but after introductions I never know when to text again or even what to say.

I need help knowing how to open a girl without the use of canned openers and what I could do to continue talking to these girls. I would hit them up with a hi how are you but after that I never know what to say except for poor use of that a3 technique and hinting at meet ups but never setting nothing up. Also they usually read messages like that and never answer back though girls who were previously receptive often do answer back that second attempt at contact.

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I think you have a lot of reading to do. You have answered some of your own questions in a way; remember, the PUA is always the exception to the rule.

Reading? Like books? I don't think I'll ever spend money on learning pick up but if you got anything for free it would be nice if you toss that my way.

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The forum's a good place to start, there's stacks of info in here for free.

Reading up will help slightly, but online sarging can be difficult and even if you think you just found some miracle line to feed to a girl and other members have talked about their success using this line. In the end it comes down to the type of girl she is, your picture if this is fb your talking about and also what you wrote to her.

Some girls will never respond since they are simply not interested in meeting people online especially the hb8's or higher. IF you don't want to mass message then pick your targets carefully. This is just my experience.

Btw I remember there being a thread of online openers that people use but I can't find it maybe someone will link it for you.

I'm not very experienced, but you have to learn a lot more!

To begin with: A Simple "Hello? How u doing hun?" Will never work! Sarging on the internet is hard. Your opener should be witty / funny, and it should make her interested! Search on this forum for cool openers!

What works for me is:
Subject: Titanic

Hey! You seem familiar! Were you by any chances on the Titanic?
I bet I saw you cleaning the floor!

I get a lot of positive responses on that! Some other guy on this forum made that one up, he had another great opener!

Another reason why you don't get responses is because your profile may be crappy! Maybe you have stupid pictures, or it's boring!

Instead of:
Interests: Playing the guitar

You want to use:
Interest: I like to serenade you with my Guitar!

Make it a little funny, and stand out from the other 132 profiles she saw that day!

And keep practising! And remember: This forum provides a lot of information!

P.s. My English might be a little bad, but I'm Dutch :p

Don't beat around the bush too much.

Dare to compliment her if you don't dare to go indirict.
Try being direct for a chance. The more you practise direct opening
The more you'll use it, in real life aswel.

Good luck

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