I'm talking messages sent: messages received. At my absolute best, it's probably 25:1, but that depends on the site. On POF it's more like 50:1. What is your usual ratio? And let me bring this onto a question that I think is important.

Ok, since someone can get a ratio as bad as 25:1 or 50:1, can this same figure apply in person? I'm talking with the same people though. Let's say that hypothetically, you met these exact same women in person and you tried to get a number or just anything. Do you think that they would do the exact same as online (at least in the long run)? I'm torn between thinking that yes, they would since it's my personal belief that people are the same online as they are in person (they're just more free online), and thinking that no, you'd probably have more of a chance since they get more guys hitting on them online. What do you think?

Mine is about 1/10 on POF and 1/20 on OKC. For some reason, I dont have lot of success on OKC, probably due to the serious tone of ppl on there doesn't cope well with the fact i made my profile a joke and didnt take it seriously.

okc is full of bitches. 1/30

plenty of fish, 1/12