I have been taking to a girl online for the past month. We have exchanged numbers but occasionally also have online chats. Last week was was somewhat receptive as in, she initiated text conversations, was eager to talk when I finally came online after some time. And was also into a bit of sex talk early on when we met, as in didn't deny my somewhat conspicuous sexual advances. Around the first week

Recently, whilst being playful and making her look like a pervert, I told her that when we meet (which is decided already, although not confirmed when), she should first promise that she won't make any sexual advances towards me which she obliged to (she rarely promises anything).

Also, she I think for the first time denied any physical contact stating "you will never get the chance", or "you can only be so lucky" Or when I said:

ME: Sorry babe, you can't [do this], this isn't going to work out
HB: I don't know what you mean by that but I don't want to work out anything with you. I'm glad.

She also stated "you are practically begging for it" to which I replied "you insult my intelligence" and stuff, although she took it back when she said it was a "joke" when I said something about her I found out just to get me to tell her how I found that information.

So, is it possible I may have come across as a bit needy? I think a nervous 30 minute phone call might have caused a few dents (she said I talked a bit to fast). Although I denied any sexual advancements before they came. Or was this the wrong way to go about things (sort of):

Her: I'm hungry
Me: I think I might make you dinner, if only you promise not to jump on me while I'm doing it.
Her: I'm sure you'd like it. Stop being paranoid. (although recently this turned to "get over yourself", or "you can never be this lucky")

Any advice? Need to build that sexual chemistry back up. Should I keep it strictly text from now on? or the only way to resolve this situation is to do about it physically when we meet, although here I'm afraid she might stop me since I get the feeling since she said "you aren't getting any" or you get the idea here...

Edit: Just to add, I have teased her a lot about being a pervert or wanting it but not saying it, and that "you have been remotely manipulating me" or something. So, would it be a good idea to mention to her before I meet that "you wanted it, I coming to give it to you now". (Since before I used to deny it, but now that according to me she wants it, I will give it to her to sort of "give this a rest".) Good idea?

Edit2: She has mentioned once or twice that "why don't you come to my place" or "just come to my town" when I was trying to get her to come to me. I then told her to split my expenses in half to which she somewhat agreed to say the least.

Bump

Not sure what the problem is here...she invited you to come see her. Why didn't you go?

I think so. Just to avoid this again, what should have i said.

And to be quiet honest, I think was being serious that time.

Hmm, maybe over-teasing is the problem.

But she now has denied any sexual contact to occur if we meet.

man remember its cocky, FUNNY. not just cocky.

you got too much cocky. dont just blindly accuse her of wanting you. you have to pull her in first, then tease her.

the things you do arent for her! if she says shes hungry then tell her what your making YOURSELF for dinner tonight. make her want you without offering yourself

Plus from that entry it seems like you're a bit of a sex maniac!! Maybe you should reduce the sexual innuendo. Of course you can throw some in, women are very sexual creatures, but when they get the vibe that you're just after them for sex, they don't want to give it up so freely.

So that's where qualification comes in, qualify her and vibe off her answers and she'll begin to realise you like her for more than just her vagina, which counter intuitively, gets you her vagina.

That's just her shit testing you - go see her and see where it goes. How you are when you go to meet her is what is going to decide if there is any sexual contact, not what is said over the internet beforehand.

Hmm, I thought so. Online and real life are obviously different. Might get the most out of the situation. Might even keep the sexual innuedo down until I finally meet her.

Anyway, if anyone else has any other opnions, feel free to add them. I only started this thread because it went from "possibly" to "denying". Maybe its just a test. Will just have to wait and see. If I don't f-close, then at least I will try and make sure I don't stick around for the friend-zone.

thanks.