This is an email convo I had with a GORGEOUS young thing on a dating site. I lost her on the number close. I am gutted!
I am wondering if anyone can spot any flaws in my game. Did I come off as too aggressive? Any comments welcome.
Me
*Clubname1*, *Clubname2*. Which one do you prefer to mess up your hair at?
I'm new to *city*. I've been to *club, *bar* and the *club* so far but I wanna try more.
You just into punk or do you like music with balls too?
Her
whats musi with balls? >.
Me
Some balls:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OI-fWgyMXYA
You didn't answer my first question. Which club/bar do you puke outside off in the early hours in *city*?
Her
i dnt like clubs/bars.. those things scare me for multiple reasons...
Me
Explain...
Clubs aren't so bad. The only thing you need to worry about as a girl is aggressive knobs trying to pick you up. If you're in a group with a guy or two who are watching your back it's fine.
In rock clubs I have found these wankers to be rare.
Blokes have more to worry about when drunken wannabe alpha male twats try and start fights. I've never had to resort to full-on fisty-cuffs.
What's wrong with clubs? They are fun! Have a drink and dance!
Her
well, there's the****guys, there's agressive girls, someone can drop something in my drink... alot of things can happen...
besides i dnt really know how to dance... so... yeah... =/
Me
Aggressive girls, haha! Watching girls rolling around on the floor pulling hair is fun! I have never seen it on a night out though. Disappointing!
Like I said, if you're with friends nothing is going to happen to you. You DO have friends don't you?!
Give me your number and we'll organise a night in *city*. You bring a couple of your friends and I'll bring a couple of mine. We'll have a drink, chat shit and take it from there.
If it doesn't go so well who cares? You will have your posse and I will have mine and we can go our separate ways.
We both joined this site to meet new people. Let's do it.
Give me your number. We'll continue this on the cellular telephone network...
Her
you sound too much like my ex... and im scared of people like him...
Me
Well something must have attracted you to him.
I have no idea what your ex was like so I can't comment but what I can say is you have no reason to be scared of me.
If you can't trust enough to meet in a public place or even to give out your phone number then you and me wouldn't work anyway.
Maybe we're wasting our time. You decide.
Her
he was a controlling psycho... cant trust people tht remind me of him
Me
Ha. I am one of the most laid-back people you're ever likely to meet. I even suffer a bit with shyness.
Controlling? I wouldn't say I was controlling just that I know what I want and am willing push for it.
I have no interest in making you do anything you don't want to do.
Am I a psycho? Wellllllllll probably not for me to judge but I've never been arrested. In fact I actually worked for the police.
You lead the convo from now. If you want to ask me something, do it. If you want me to piss off say so and I won't message you again. But please don't waste my time. Time is precious.
Her
time aint precious.... it's so slow.. wont move for me.. but yeah.. i'm not gonna trust you what ever you say... i'm sure theres enough people on here who will tho
Me
Time is the most precious thing we have. To wish for time to move faster is too wish for a sooner death.
Fill your time doing the things you love with the people you love and you will cherish every second.
It was nice talking to you. Good luck with your search.
CHAT
(((( I MISS HIM SO MUCH!!! EVERY DAY IS LIKE AN ETERNITY!!!"