It was going great up until she told me she has a date tomorrow, guess I didn't know what do do with that.

Kampmann:hmm, you saying you give him one shot?

(1:15:23 am)QuixoticAesthet:yup

(1:15:34 am)QuixoticAesthet:cuz im not that interested but interested enough

(1:18:50 am)Kampmann:Cool. So you lookin to see if he's fun and spontaneous enough

(1:18:57 am)Kampmann:to make a move on the first date?

(1:19:39 am)QuixoticAesthet:if he makes a move besides kissing he totally lost his shot

(1:19:46 am)QuixoticAesthet:not that i wouldnt let him

(1:20:05 am)QuixoticAesthet:its just i dont take guys seriously that cant control themselves

(1:20:13 am)QuixoticAesthet:without me telling them to

(1:20:26 am)Kampmann:Yeah, I meant if he makes a move like kissing

(1:20:53 am)QuixoticAesthet:meh first off...i want to see if i find him attractive in person

(1:21:01 am)QuixoticAesthet:u know online pics not very accurate

(1:21:18 am)QuixoticAesthet:if he passes that test then its on to the personality test

(1:21:19 am)Kampmann:Oh.. so it's someone you met online?

(1:21:36 am)Kampmann:YOu taking this online socializing to the next level already.

(1:22:01 am)QuixoticAesthet:hahahaha

(1:22:06 am)QuixoticAesthet:ive met a few

(1:22:14 am)QuixoticAesthet:thats part of how i get my kicks

(1:22:17 am)QuixoticAesthet:its an adventure



Some innocent blabla, then later:


(1:26:55 am)Kampmann:but you seem like a great girlfriend then lol

(1:27:05 am)Kampmann:You're not checking out other guys like that

(1:27:18 am)QuixoticAesthet:lol im a great girlfriend

(1:27:28 am)QuixoticAesthet:other guys might be hot n i might check em out

(1:27:31 am)QuixoticAesthet:but all i want is u

(1:28:02 am)QuixoticAesthet:dont give them the opportunity to interest me

(1:28:03 am)Kampmann:nice

(1:28:15 am)Kampmann:Hey I'm Nick btw

(1:28:19 am)QuixoticAesthet:Vecky

(1:28:35 am)Kampmann:Nice to meet you

(1:28:40 am)Kampmann:you go out on the weekends?

(1:29:04 am)QuixoticAesthet:yeah when i feel the urge

(1:29:12 am)QuixoticAesthet:either to dance.. flirt or hook up

(1:29:52 am)Kampmann:Do you prefer that over online flirting?

(1:30:05 am)QuixoticAesthet:i like kissing

(1:30:10 am)QuixoticAesthet:u cant do that online

(1:30:24 am)QuixoticAesthet:online flirting can only satisfy me soo much

(1:30:28 am)Kampmann:yeah lol, maybe in the future

(1:30:37 am)QuixoticAesthet:lol

(1:30:42 am)Kampmann:Don't know how but someone will figure it out

(1:30:50 am)Kampmann:probably a really lonely computer programmer

(1:30:56 am)QuixoticAesthet:LMAO


Some blabla, then later:



(1:36:07 am)QuixoticAesthet:every thing is new

(1:37:43 am)Kampmann:yeah that's how I feel. This is so different from Europe

(1:37:59 am)Kampmann:And I feel like a loner cus I only have like 10 friends here

(1:38:04 am)QuixoticAesthet:ur from europe?

(1:38:15 am)Kampmann:yup

(1:38:39 am)QuixoticAesthet:lol u have more friends than me

(1:38:44 am)QuixoticAesthet:n i lived all my life here

(1:39:01 am)Kampmann:you're probably picky with who you call friends lol

(1:39:16 am)QuixoticAesthet:well its ppl u hang with

(1:39:20 am)QuixoticAesthet:if so

(1:39:25 am)QuixoticAesthet:less than 10

(1:40:21 am)Kampmann:Oh, some of the friends/aquaintances I've made here aren't people I hang out with much

(1:40:48 am)Kampmann:I'm planning on having a move-in party kinda and I was like wow I can only invite like 5 people

(1:41:47 am)Kampmann:some others I either don't want to come or they're too busy or something else

(1:50:14 am)Kampmann:damn, I just went to the liquor store and back and you still haven't wrote me back

(1:50:18 am)Kampmann:tsk tsk...

(1:50:57 am)QuixoticAesthet:well

(1:51:01 am)QuixoticAesthet:nothing to wright

(1:51:41 am)Kampmann:okay

(1:51:46 am)Kampmann:are you a good listener?

(1:51:54 am)Kampmann:Or do you text and stuff on a date?

(1:52:54 am)QuixoticAesthet:i never use my phone on a date that is seriously rude

(1:53:07 am)QuixoticAesthet:unless its my mom and it might be important

(1:53:16 am)Kampmann:okay good

(1:54:17 am)Kampmann:Yeah I'm pretty close with my mom so I might just text back and be like sorry I'm on a date

(1:54:39 am)Kampmann:actually I've never done that...


Did I mess it up with that "I have 10 friends here" comment?

I see a 45 minute (ridiculously long) text conversation about nothing. No substance, no banter, no challenge, no excitement...a total snooze fest. What kind of outcome did you expect? Not to mention, you did most, if not all of the questioning. She did not ask you anything about yourself, which means a lack of interest.

Here are a few tips...

QuixoticAesthet:its just i dont take guys seriously that cant control themselves
SiNfUl: I know what you mean, I hate when girls grab my ass in public
QuixoticAesthet:if he passes that test then its on to the personality test
SiNfUl: personality test? What's next, a sobriety test then on to blood work?
QuixoticAesthet:lol im a great girlfriend
SiNfUl: then why are you single

Notice how she made herself out to be this great prize that guys have to work for? Her level of delusion is off the charts my friend. These are the types of women I enjoy knocking off pedestals.

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