Hi all this is a routine I just invented while gaming a girl online. There may be something similar around I don't know but don't accuse me with stealing anything because this was pure spontaneous and I just thought I would share it with you as I think it is a nice one. The routine goes like this:
There are 4 people at a river each can choose a power to pass by.
1 uses strength to swim through.
1 uses skill to build a raft.
1 uses patience and searches for a bridge,
the last uses friendship and goes with one of them.
Which one are you?
Of course this tells you about her personality which you can use and it's a more interesting way of getting to know her than simply asking "what kind of person are you?" I think. oh and most likely she will choose the 4th answer but then again you can ask which one would she go with? Call it a trap

But it keeps the possibility for her to qualify herself by choosing the 4th answer(with it she tries to show you that friends are more important to her than strength) while you also get some maybe more useful information.