If anyone is quite experienced with using POF and understands all its workings, I'd be grateful for your help. I believe POF only lets you make changes to some things on your profile (like age) in the first 2 weeks of it being registered for some dumb reason (my profile is older than 2 weeks). With a lady who's put what's below at the bottom of her POF profile and wants 'Long Term', POF won't let me message her.

I'm in the age range, don't smoke, do drugs, am unmarried and haven't previously messaged anyone looking for an Intimate Encounter. I tried clicking on everything in Mail Settings (meaning you don't want to be messaged by women seeking Dating, Talk/EMail, etc.), but after everything is ticked, POF will only let
2 boxes stay unticked (Friendship, Long Term). Still can't message the lady and I suspect other guys won't be able to either. It's no big deal, but I just wanted to ask guys who are experienced with using POF a lot more than me.


Male
Age between 30 and 41
Live in Australia
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
You must have a picture to contact this user.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke