So one of the big techniques i've been usin is the roleplay openers like where i paint the picture that were together and they go along with it and stuff.

SO tonight the girl i grew up with (look in previous posts) that i liked but i was her "good guy" friend who always was like oh ur so beautiful blah blah blah so not lately though and I was worried i was going too far cause she'd stop texting or right "oh stop loL" but tonight....i was approached i think.

So on FACEBOOK she writes "Movie night got my oreos and ice cream" or something along those lines so I comment "what movie you watching?" she writes "Emily Rose" i say "ohhh good choice" she says oh yes but nooone to share it with (I COULD OF WENT WITH THAT BUT NOPE WASN'T SMART AT THE TIME) and said "

Me: where's the bf?

She wrote: You?
She wrote: lol

Me: lol you wish I thought you were seeing someone

She wrote: again...you lol

I wrote: Really? How did i miss that?

She wrote: I walked right passed ya you missed it (not sure what she meant but i went along)

I wrote: Well walk by again I definitely wont miss it

She wrote: lol few people have they r blind (again not sure)

I wrote: well im actually blind i have an excuse. You just have to make more noise when you walk by so i know your walking by (meaning STOP SCREWING AROUND IF U WANT ME MAKE A MOVE)

She wrote lol oh stop

then she was texting me and said her and her boy broke up So i just basically uhhuh'd did a few niec guy moves ut not bad just one said eh his loss" but then she was like oh yeah gonna stay single blah blah blah so i said "well hey you need a back up for movies and cuddling making out and stuff im your guy. she said awesome i like that

That was it. So i know i was a bit eh at first but think i ended alright though still wondering if i shouldn't of said "back up" cause it fucked up my value. IDK though hit or miss?

First off, after She said "you again". You should have said something like "you couldn't handle me" provides a challenge, chicks love it. She'd play along then you should have said what time should I come over? She obviously wanted you to. You want to jump on any hints that girls give you. I personally don't think saying "be your backup" will lower your value at all. Seems like your worrying to much about what she thinks of you. Don't be a wuss! "I wrote: well im actually blind i have an excuse. You just have to make more noise when you walk by so i know your walking by (meaning STOP SCREWING AROUND IF U WANT ME MAKE A MOVE)" why are you waiting or wanting her to make the move? Your the man. You make the moves. When I talk to girls I have the mindset that she needs to impress me, mess with them. You did a little messing around that was good. She likes you, get that! And remember when a girl wants to "watch a movie" means making out, not watching the movie, she's lonely and horny haha

update: she and I texted on and off today. I said "Oh we should have a movie night and watch tons of horror movies. She agreet and said how about saturday. Now i actually cant because I have to help my step dad but told her I promised a girl "Natalie" (there is no natalie shes my LISA) that after our big test on thursday i'd buy us our first round at the local bar. So now B wrote ugh fine what about this day that day so we landed on next saturday.